We are an interracial couple who are open-minded. We are not very experienced, but we are figuring out what we like/don't like. Interested in couples, bi/lesbian female interested in her, straight/bi female interested in him, or a triad relationship with a female. She is a cute East Indian girl. He is a tall white man. We both work in the IT industry and have no s.

My Ideal Person She is especially attracted to tall, white men that look, dress, and act like gentlemen. She is open to other kinds of men if there is attraction, but still expects them to be gentlemen.

She is not attracted to many "alpha male" characteristics (show-off, pushy, aggressive, macho). She likes "nice guys" and "nerdy guys" who are intelligent, easy-going, and respectful.

She is also attracted to women but is still looking for her first experience with one. She is free to play separately with women; he does not need to be present.

He likes women of all races. He especially loves Indian girls, obviously .

He is a slow, gentle lover and enjoys exploring a woman's body with his fingers and mouth. He enjoys kissing and fondling as much as intercourse and likes giving oral.

Couples: We are open to soft or full swap, same room or separate room depending on the comfort level with the particular couple. Our ideal couple would be educated professionals who are stable in their relationship. The first is just a preference; the second is a requirement. If you are having any kind of trouble in your relationship, we do not want to be involved. We want you to be in love with each other as much as we are with each other. Honesty is paramount.

We do not like pushy people and want to move at our own slow pace. We are not desperate, but are looking for some basis for a connection beyond sex (common interest, mutual respect, etc). This doesn't mean we have to hang out or be best friends , but we should be able to hold a nice, long conversation over drinks or dinner before sex is considered. We will not move forward unless all parties involved feel very comfortable.

We tend to be choosy on the basis of compatibility, attraction, and perceived risk of drama or disease.

We are disease free and test regularly.

We are not really into BDSM at this time.

Open for friendship, sex, and (if we meet the right person) love.