Overly Witty, extremely charming, outgoing, alluring, fun loving, thrill seeking, chatty, affectionate, sexy, dominate yet summissive, do any of these qualities interest you? With tons of smiles, laughs and winks!!! If so I would like to hear your powers of persuasion. C'mon everyone tell me your secrets tell me your desires!!!! Do you have what it takes to make it in this dating pool, there are sharks and jellyfish everywhere!!! Slightly Twisted Cinderalla is looking for her Freaky Prince Charming to whisk her off her feet, wine her, dine her, dinner and dancing. And everything else that sounds fun and inviting!!! They say you get back what you give, SO I am a firm believer in that, How much are you willing to do for me? As I will give my all. And let me give you what we all deserve back? " All I ASK FOR.. IS TRUTH AND HONESTY UP FRONT FROM THE GET GO... Please note: 1. I will NOT be the OTHER woman in your life 2. Treat me like the LADY I am 3. Follow my lead, unless I say otherwise 4. Dont question things, unless confused 5. Manners are a must. 6. I am not a booty call, or friend with benefits!!! 7. I demand your full attention when you are with me. 8. Must have open mind, willingness to learn new areas 9. Must want to please me, in every way 10. Must love leather, vinyl and latex, shiny objects 11. Motorcycle & chaps are bonuses in my mind. 12. Open minds are a must as I bore with the same ho-hum ness the average human being tends to spew... 13. I'm not your average June Cleaver type. Simple enough for starters...dontcha think? Ok sorry folks but I have to add this paragraph for all of those people out there that have [B]taken offense [/B]to my list above. [B]Tom this is for [/B][B]you...and the rest who feel I am bitchy, nitpicky and the "C" word... [/B]I have been thru way more than the typical ignorant 20 year olds. At this age and point of my life I am entited to be picky and choosey and if that offends you then walk away find someone else but the snippy emails you send me just reminds me of PURE IGNORANCE and those men make the rest of the good guys look bad. Shame shame that you must throw stones at me for being honest, hey at least I am not WASTING your time or mine on crap, and hopefully you will find the dull brainless women you need to make you feel good about yourself. Its way easy to throw daggers in an email...spineless worms!!! All the rest of the real men know how to talk to a lady. His mother should be slapped for having such a spawn. Ahem. I WILL SPELL THIS OUT FOR THE NAIVE ONES (you now who you are!!!) please pay close attention.. I never said or wanted to be your mother. I dont wish to babysit you and never offered to. We are all grown adults here, I am not asking to mold you, treat you like putty in my hands or degrade you period. I am not setting my standards to high or bashing men in any way shape or form. Period!!! As a matter of fact I tend to really dig guys esp ones who can think outside the box. Now anyone who knows something about or is into a certain "lifestyle" would understand that these wishes I posted are ones that are used in a positive fun respectful giving and receiving manner. Anything other than that is just a rookie. [B]I am into [/B]a certain scene/lifestyle. Apparently you dont quite understand otherwise you wouldnt get so offensive. Perally, I really dont know any guy who at some point in his life wouldnt want a sexy confident woman to take the lead. Waking him out of a sound sleep for some one on one time, or so as to interrupt the course of dinner as to endulge each other on the countertop for some special munchies.....yum Hence by taking all the pressures and decisions off him for a time or two. Yeah yeah that too. That my friends is a fabulous thing!!! And that is what my rules apply for, They are letting you know every now and then I enjoy taking control. Once again I like more than what June Cleaver was portraying. I have to say Ginger was the hot one but Mary Ann was the freaky one all the men desired. Dont you agree? And I am looking for an [U]intelligent man [/U]who is comfortable with the fact that he can hand over control to me and I will gladly give back. But yet I a looking for a man who will keep up with my wants and needs as well, as the women get older the more they seem to turn into nymphos, snicker snicker. Think you can handle that guys??? And I will also gladly be the damsel in distress who needs a sexy hot strapping man to help me out as well at times. Usually with the champagne bottles, (damn corks) And in the morning were all ok with everything. Esp after tearing up and messing up the flannel sheets. Eh it all comes out in the wash . Now for all you people who have sent me the little zippy nasty emails in regards to my profile list... please try to turn ON the other side of you brain and turn OFF the macho-crap. Next time ask a per what they are talking about before you decided to spout off rants of stupidity and then have to suddenly remove your head from your ass for heavens sake. And for all the intelligent men out there that got the meaning behind my wants/needs list the first time, KUDOS TO YOU!!! Damn its good to know I can tell the MEN from the BOYS. For those awesome adventerous souls please feel free to join in on the fun!!! Bring your leather,chaps,chains, open minds and techniques and toys. And a good bottle of champagne, and a real flute glass, girls gotta have her bubbly!!! PS and some good food and beverages.?*?*{=}o-o

My Ideal Person Ultimately, I am looking for my ideal LONG TERM playmate, a partner to assist my every need, someone who will bring out the best of all sides of me. I want to be that woman he adores and cant wait to get home to, and looks forward to the awesome times now and the times I will have in store for us both...

Someone I can wake up in the middle of the night have my womanly ways with him and he eagerly takes care of me and never complains, someone I can drag out my whips and chains and other toys and sexy outfits with. Some one who loves my fetish clothing and is willing to let me bring out his inner freak he didnt realize he had. And thru it all still thinks I am the most beautiful creature around.

I want a guy who isnt afraid to go "shopping" and pick out a few interesting trinkets to use along the way. I want a guy who uses his brain as well as his brawn. I want us to experiment on all levels.

Someone who will not explain the huge eye hook in the ceiling to anyone... ever.

But yet he will snicker at it while we watch tv with friends or family over.

Someone who will be my best friend, my lover, my critic, and my rock. Someone who I can just plain get lost in the moment with. Someone you desire to come home to, who will be that spectacular creature you've been looking for.

And yes this is BlackSexMatch.com and yeah I maybe getting a tad bit sappy for this site, sorry but after talking with a few people on here I have found that even tho they list they want to have tons of sex and tons of other stuff...they are just as sappy as I am. Complete with wanting the good old fashioned walk on the beach, blockbuster couch nite, soft kisses, and they do own puppies, and cats type of people.

So I guess what I am saying is its a need of mine to wanna get it on bent over the couch screaming out your name & still crave your tender touch, so if you have these two sides and arent afraid to let it show then drop me a jingle...

SO YEAH...

I want the entire package, the good the bad the whole nine yards, along with a side of shackles, pizza and flannel sheets and the meeting of two highly talented, creative minds. C'mon guys tell me your deepest, darkest secret fantasy you have always wanted and have yet to have fullfilled. As I have a few goals i would love to achieve in this lifetime.

And for good measure toss me a good stiff one.... drinks for starters you freaks!!!!

And the hopes of working together on all areas of interest in life..

Inside the bedroom...
Outside the bedroom..
And all areas in between.

Oh one more thing ... get me a good pair of high heeled boots that I can wrap around your neck... and revel in the knowledge that I am getting it as good as your giving it. (insert mental picture here) sorry morphed into pig mode

BUT I am a firm believer one must test drive the car before you buy it. I am tired of rentals and cheap imports.
This time around I want comfort and reliability and a few new toys in the glove box to enjoy the ride with.

If any of this is what you're lookin for, again drop me a line.

If I feel your genuine I will respond.

If your just out for one nite stands please please please dont waste my time or yours for that fact.

Besides gentleman, after being with me you wont want anyone else! There is far more than meets the eye and there is different levels of me.

Look deeply into ones eyes and tell me what you see...

Our eyes are the windows into our souls, so next time your with that one special person, stare deeply into their eyes and see what you can see.

Do they break your gaze and look away, do they stare back at you with burning desire, are they INTENSE?

I have looked at someone with 110% love and desire and they saw it in my eyes even tho i tried to hide it. God what was I thinking?

And when you see that and feel the same way cherish that person, as we very seldom get that chance. Its precious.

4 peas, a scoop of whipped potatoes and all the ice cream you can eat....Can anyone name that show that line came from???? Brownie points for getting the trivia question......any takers?

Also written on the shower wall a name and a memento and many thursday nite EXIT shows, I will you my black fishnets, and crazy weekends galore!!!

As for the rest...

I would love to hear your answers....and your thoughts.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
marilyn manson, queensryche, pantera, zombie, switchblade
symphony

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
oooh i always wanted to start flirting with my guy over dinner
at a nice resturant, perhaps start out telling him over
dinner what i want to do to him and perhaps get a tad bit handys
while dinner is being served. then order dessert and stragically
eat it very seductively in front of him while he thinks what
else i could be doing to him with my tongue. Then on the car
ride home I would love to peel off clothing and tease him
more, and then see how well he concentrates on the drive.
Finally I want to have him so hot for me by the time we hit the
driveway that it takes every ounce of will power to make
it inside the front door, before he rips off my clothing
and gives it to me right there against the front door or better
yet bent over the arm of the sofa and its a rough, raw primal
time where the soft sweet stuff isnt an option. Some time
you just wanna go at it like animals, ,, ,yeah baby!!!!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
oooh anyone who really knows me, knows who my fav should
i say rock star is...hint his royal unholyness, yeah that
really guy trips my trigger. <br><br>
Thank god for Marilyn Manson, he is HOT!!! Give me a tall
man with dark hair and bedroom eyes!!!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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