*** update August 2011 *** We are now in an open marriage. We are not separated, we still love each other very much and are not splitting up. She has a boyfriend that she regularly sees, and he is looking for a regular partner. He is interested in women, bi/gay top guys, and bi couples for ongoing friendship or just an occasional playdate. Race and age are not important. It is ok if you are half of a couple but prefer if you are not cheating. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*** end update *** We are looking for friends in the lifestyle to hang out with and more once we are comfortable with each other. We like people who are outgoing, friendly, open, and sincere. We are not into pushy people or anyone just looking to play and run. We like to be able to get together with people for dinner, dancing, playing cards, watching a game (we like lots of sports, mostly football, baseball, and MMA), or whatever without any expectations. As for attraction, we definitely love people that are in good shape, but we have found that perality has a lot to do with it, too. It is just as much of a turn on when we really hit it off with someone and we all get along and are comfortable with each other. We both try to stay in shape, but we are not perfect and do not expect you to be. Basically want to find people that we are comfortable around. The more comfortable we are with you, the fewer limits there will be when we play! We prefer to not play on the first meet. We have done that and it was very awkward. We prefer to get to know people before moving on to the next step. If you are looking to just meet up for sex and nothing else, we are the wrong people to talk to. We do have a family and three young ren, so we can not drop everything to run out and meet someone; we need to be able to plan ahead. If this is annoying to you, if you are impatient, or if you just don't understand that we can't be spontaneous, then you probably shouldn't bother contacting us.

My Ideal Person Right now we are mainly looking for someone for him. Ideally he would like to meet a bisexual woman who is also able to enjoy his bisexuality. He likes a wide variety of women and does not have a particular type. He is not into people who are excessively over or under weight. As long as you take care of yourself, keep things groomed and clean, and at least make an attempt to keep in shape, he will at least chat with you to see where it goes. If you like a passionate guy that will have a lasting relationship with you while exploring all the different sides of your sexuality, send a message or a wink!

Couples are good, too, although it is best if at least the male half is bisexual. He enjoys threesomes where everyone can play and have a good time without having to worry about who is touching who with what.

Guys - He prefers guys that like to top and even better if you are well endowed. He enjoys giving and receiving oral and loves getting topped. Please be able to get hard and stay hard, it is a major turn-off when a guy can't keep it up.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Metallica, Disturbed, Bon Jovi, Def Leppard, Tim Mcgraw,
Faith Hill, Carrie Underwood,

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