When I go out, usually some friends and I hang out together and laugh for a few hours. Commitment-wise, I just want a secret no-strings fling that gives us both what we're missing. For me a perfect date is one where we head out with a plan, but we go where the night takes us. The philosophy I live by is "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with." I've reached the point where it's time to get past my shy nature and meet someone new. I get along best with people who have a positive attitude.