Not looking for a relationship. Just seeing whats out there. Maybe some online fun, or very discreet meets. I tend to be more about pleasing my partners than myself. I've been called a gentle lover. I like to be taken charge of though not submissive probably best described as pliable , I don't like play or any sort of pain play I get turned on by Lycra/Spandex especialy one peice swimsuits, shiny leggings and also satin but wouldnt call it a fetish

My Ideal Person A mature women, Non-binary ,or couple ,don't mind a voluptuous figure, can play bi mutual play or oral, whilst Im not physically attracted to guys, playing with a hard cock along with a woman is a turn on

My preference tends to assertive people, who take the initiative, so not really into submissive people

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