I'll answer anyone. It's common courtesy. If you've contacted me, and I haven't responded, it's because I'm not permitted to reply. I'm looking for someone a bit like me - married and not wanting to change anything. Someone who demands and offers complete discretion. Someone drug, disease and drama free. Attitude is far more important than looks. I'm carrying extra weight, so I'm okay with that. What I'm totally interested in: Mutual oral. I've sucked dick, and I like it. I like getting sucked off too. No question. If you're only interested in getting sucked off and leaving me hanging, I'm not the right partner for you. What I'm kinda interested in: Anal. I enjoy a finger back there, and I'd like to try more, plus the idea of topping (and being topped) is very arousing. However, anal is something that won't occur until I'm comfortable with a partner, and it's truly optional, i.e., if anal isn't your thing at all, no problem. If anal is all you're interested in, well, I'm not the right partner for you. What I'm NOT interested in: "making love" to a man. Honestly, the idea of kissing a man does nothing for me. It's truly all about the cock and those sensations. If you're not okay with that, then I'm not the partner for you. What I'm also NOT interested in: All that really freaky shit like scat, etc. I'm a regular guy who happens to like a little cock in his life particularly when things in the bedroom get slow at home. I'm looking for the same. My ideal situation: Someone who lives nearby that can host (of course). Once a week, I swing for a little fun. If time permits, some exploration time. If time is short, a mutual blow-and-go would be fine too. Well, to be totally honest, my ideal situation would be an occasional bi-MFM or bi-couple arrangement, but there's no way in hell I can talk MY wife into that, but if YOURS is open, I'm IN! ! ;-) If you think you might be that partner, please drop me a line.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Spanking, Threesomes, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

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