I'm really looking for a very very discreet lover who wants to explore heights of pleasure that she can't get otherwise. I had one lover tell me that she wished all guys had hands like mine. I asked what she meant, and she said: Your hands were soft when I needed soft, aggressive when I needed aggressive, rough when I wanted rough...you just knew how to please me. That was the biggest compliment. I am married so my time constraints are tight. So, you might ask yourself, why is a married guy on here. Well, to tell you the truth, I'm here looking for that renewed passion that my wife just isn't in the mood for anymore. It seems that the more I get risqué and my drive increases she gets less risqué and her drive decreases. I feel like I'm jumping out of my skin and it's driving me crazy. I'm feeling like I'm at the peak of my desire and my desirability and it's going to waste :-S I'd like to feel that rush of "ooh i just got a text from you know who...can't wait to see her". Join me, I'll treat you like a princess or a queen... your choice.

My Ideal Person My perfect match here would be a woman who can't wait for me to be there, but will respect and appreciate the need for very secret communications and interactions. I am attracted to all kinds, short, tall, flirty, reserved. More than looks it's a personality thing with me. I'd love to spend a morning making you comfortable and excited.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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