[COLOR Blue]Let me begin by saying that when I look at the compatability charts for profiles I find a great deal of the ladys narrow the geographic range too far. As I live in Maricopa and have a car, am retired and free to relocate or travel to a meet someone it is not a problem. Secondly I realize most people including myself seek younger partners and in so doing narrow our fields of suitable partners. I am therefor expanding my range by 10 years.[/COLOR] I am outgoing to people once I get to know them. Rather shy about approaching people at first. I enjoy going to movies but not so much at home. Television I like stuff that involves real life such as Survivor, Amazing Race, some sitcoms, Football, baseball, gold hocky, my TV resides on the ID channel when I am not watching something else. I try to look for the positive side of people and while I might get upset I can usually let go of things I can't control. I am semi active in the Phoenix area [COLOR purple]BDSM[/COLOR] lifestyles. I have been both a Dom and a slave My main activity these days is archery both indoor and out. Did I mention I LOVE eating pussy? If she will squirt so much the better. I am not LOOKING for a relationship but believe that love happens and is not something to search for however if it slaps me in the face I will be a wake enough to accept it. It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. I was married 42 years to a woman and through thick and thin we stuck it out. There were good times and bad times joyful and spitfull, poor as dirt and making excellent money. No matter the problem we somehow put things back together.

My Ideal Person She would be out going fun loving, open to some kink. Her past is hers alone and has left her baggage behind. Presently it would be best if she would host as in my current situation I can host but neither of us would be really comfortable. If she has children hopefully they do not live with her. I have raised two kids and one of the grandkids and I would not wish to do it again. She likes the outdoors, travel, camping (maybe) dining out. I am not concerned much about her looks as long as she is doing the best she can given what God has provided. I try to see what is inside a person not just the appearance. She is proud of who she is and her beliefs. A woman can not really read my mind nor can I read hers so getting me to communicate better should be in her skill set as I try to improve my skills as well. Hopefully she will tell me what she wants and needs, both in and out of the bedroom. Ideally she should embrace the BDSM lifestyle and be a switch but rarely do we find ideal so if she may be a submissive or a dom. For sort term FWB kink not required. She may or may not be bi. She is a princess or Queen on my arm in public but is a slut behind closed doors.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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