doitbythenumbers 61 / 56 / C
"We want more than we have."
Colorado Springs, Colorado, United States
 
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doitbythenumbers 61/C
Colorado Springs, Colorado
We'd rather be nude...
Introduction
UPDATED ON 21 DECEMBER 2021 We’re back! After a little more than two month away during which we took a good, long, evaluative look at ourselves, did some travelling, and prepared for Christmas (yes, we said Christmas) and New Year’s we know who we are, what we want, and how we’ll proceed on this site and in the lifestyle. We are both bi-sexual. And we couldn’t be more pleased with that realization! This nation and a majority of its residents are far too hung up and concerned about the sex and sexuality of others. Many take their fears and concerns about contact with the same gender so far that it considerably limits their own sexual pleasure, and quite possibly the pleasure of their partner as well. Having recently visited Pompeii (which unfortunately was buried in ash in 79 A.D.) it is clear that the human race has been enjoying the carnal pleasures of all those around them for more than 2000 years. In that society men enjoyed women, women enjoyed men, men enjoyed two women, women enjoyed two men, women enjoyed women, men enjoyed men, and everyone enjoyed doing all that two or more people of any gender can do together. Their lifestyle was expressed so freely and enjoyed by so many, they memorialized their promiscuous activities on the walls of many of their houses. Those paintings when viewed today make clear the freedoms they lived in their sexual lives… regardless of the gender pairings. Sexual pleasure is sexual pleasure. Does it matter what form it takes? We think not. Does it matter who is performing cunnilingus on whom when your eyes are closed? We think not. Does it really matter who is performing fellatio on whom in a dimly lit room? We certainly think not. Of course all men, and most women, believe two girls together doing whatever they want to and with each other borders on the “normal” and is a huge turn-on. But somehow two men together doing almost anything erotic together is not only a show-stopper, some, if not many, believe it to be a near criminal activity – even when the significant others of those men are in the same room participating. We view non-tolerance and close-mindedness as the near criminal activity. Sexual pleasure is sexual pleasure. We believe that sexual pleasure should be given, taken, and enjoyed in all forms at all times. We are both decidedly bi-sexual, and excited by the sexual pleasure that has, can, and will be provided to and for both of us. We as a couple will not be limited by the close-minded, puritan thoughts and actions of “the majority.” We also realize that some of you reading this will be disgusted and choose to not make contact with us. We accept that. But for those with open minds, a sense of adventure, and a desire to expand your horizons, we look forward to hearing from you and sharing with you. In the meantime, please enjoy our photos! The below information is still relevant, more or less… We are are an open-minded couple who seek to continue to expand our experiences and fulfill our needs. We might start slow, but moving to complete satisfaction is almost a sure thing with the right per(s). We are a married and committed couple. We know and like whom we are as a couple and as individuals. During our time together we have become completely comfortable with each other and have come to realize that while our sex life is amazing by any standard, and we have satisfied our respective sexual needs and desires since first meeting and improved upon them as a couple, we want more than we have. Having said we know who we are, you might imagine that we also know who and what we are seeking. We do. If we’ve piqued your interest, continue reading for more details about us such as what we enjoy, how we play, what we want (and need/require) from others, and importantly, what turns us off and will preclude interested pers from gaining our favor, enjoyment and pleasure. If your interest has waned as a result of what you’ve read about us thus far please move on to another profile – there are many to choose from. [COLOR red]WARNING: Any institutions (Sydney University included) using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects, to include private individuals borrowing pics, you do NOT have our permission to use any of our pictures or videos, in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of our privacy and you will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.[/COLOR] A little more about us for those who are interested: We are a very "down-to-earth", yet friendly couple, who enjoys good conversation, laughing and good times with like-minded people. We like outdoor activities such as biking, hiking, walking (particularly on the beach) and just plain relaxing, whether it is on a beach, by the pool, or on a blanket almost anywhere. We also love to travel both in the U.S. and overseas. We like a wide variety of music, good food, great wines and friendly company. Also, we believe that few things are better than a full body massage and facial! We are an intelligent, witty pair who are passionate about those things that interest and motivate us. We can carry on a conversation about almost anything, with almost anyone! We anticipate meeting open minded couples and (select) singles who seek to expand their horizons beyond the customary and much over rated “vanilla” sex. We are a happy and free-spirited sexy couple looking for uninhibited and drama-free friends. We enjoy sharing pleasure with others we are attracted to. We are discreet, give priority to peral hygiene, are drug and disease free, and require that you are also. We routinely practice safe-sex with others – we enjoy sharing our intimate desires but aren’t willing to die for it. We are willing to travel an as yet undefined distance to experience and share with the right couples and individuals. We will respect your boundaries and we need ours respected as well. To sum it all up, we are looking for select, honest singles (female or male) and confident and committed "real" couples whose relationship is strong enough and secure enough to allow us to enjoy each others' company to the full satisfaction of all. We are open-minded but play only in the same room. After getting to know one another over a favorite beverage, watching, touching, oral for and by everyone is how we warm up. Once we all know each other, AND if the chemistry is right, whatever everyone is comfortable with and agrees to in the moment is where we will go. But do know this – in addition to the above specifics, we desire and will only play with people who aren't "unsure" about why they are on this site and seeking a rendezvous with us. If you are unsure about your sensual and sexual needs and/or desires or have a "take it or leave it" attitude, and you intend to approach us with that kind of attitude, please don't approach us. Although this part of our lives is not the center of our universe, it is important to us and we take every aspect of it that way, and expect you to do the same. So now that you know a little more about us, if you find our profile appealing send us an email and we’ll start a dialogue. If we all like what we read we’ll get together and see where it leads us. As we said at the start of our profile, we are a secure couple; we do not want any drama – we are all here for the same rea, and that is to meet and enjoy like-minded people. We hope to hear from you soon.

My Ideal Person Here are a few additional thoughts we have on a variety of topics:

Pictures: We are a professional couple whose jobs require a semi-public presence which is why none of our online pictures reveal our faces. We do not expect to see your faces on this site. However, if you want a response from us a picture of both of you (together and/or separate) that allows us to “see” those we might be playing with is a must – no picture(s), no response. We will exchange with you, at an appropriate time before meeting, pictures that include our head and faces, and will need the same from you.

Facial hair: While she likes men and the excitement of experiencing two or more simultaneously stimulates her, she does not like facial hair, mustaches in particular. So men with anything more than short sideburns need not apply. Sorry guys.

Body hair: We share the same opinion on this topic; – from the neck down less is more! A little chest hair can be sexy. Having no visible skin on the chest or back is not. During the summer months we both are neatly trimmed below the naval. As the sun crosses south of the equator, we both tend to let Mother Nature have her way with us until the weather warms again.

Body type: As our pictures reveal, we have taken care of ourselves. We’re not perfect by any means, and realize that perfection is elusive and perhaps not even desirable. We seek neither Mr. Olympia nor Twiggy. Rather we desire people who care about their physical condition and present themselves well in multiple locations and situations.

Smells: Her sense of smell is heightened and sensitive. The smell of a person, his or her individual scent, is important to her. So much so that a person’s scent alone can and does arouse her erotic sensualities. For her, one’s personal scent as an aphrodisiac is second only to his/her physical appearance and her attraction to them. Nothing else is even a close third. The natural corollary to this is she prefers no artificial perfumes or scents, rather enjoying smelling the person, not chemicals or other concoctions. He will always defer to her and her desires in this regard.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, Light Anal

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 61/56 / Couple (man/woman)
  • Colorado Springs, Colorado, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-sexual / Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 women), Couples (2 men) or Trans
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: Happy with what we have
Our Trophy Case:
 
His
Her
Birthdate: April 11, 1961 August 20, 1965
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes Maybe/Yes
Height: 5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm 5 ft 6 in
Body Type: Average Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs I don't use drugs
Education: Master's degree BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Management Prefer not to say
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Religion: Not applicable Not applicable
Male Endowment: Long/Thick N/A
Circumcised: Yes N/A
Bra Size: N/A 34 / 75 C