I am a submissive female, unowned and uncollared at this time. I get on best with the signs of Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn and Pisces. Yes, I believe in Astrology. My journey began online and has now moved to the R/T community. This isn't something I just discovered. I've always known...I just took the long way around to get here...it is as it should be. I have a disclaimer...but it's too long to post...lol...so I'll let you use your imagination. ...it's the muffyness! In short, I am not responsible for what happens to your mind should you encounter me! This is how I see myself as a submissive right now…I am high end, dark, perverted, versatile, colorful, open, imaginative, adventurous, patient, passive, grounded, strong, smartassed, fun, playful, compliant, …well most of the time anyways. My needs as a submissive… to be used and abused in all ways, pain and orgasms …to be cherished for the special gift I bring to the table, safety, security, trust, respect, honesty and humor, I need my dominant to be present and participate, and I need him to love me and show that love to me. I need to be nurtured and trained. The relationship…this is a hard one for me as I don’t like to place a design on something that I know will change…but the foundation is simple. I want a true D/s relationship and in R/T. Monogamous unless specified and agreed upon. Communication is mandatory. Power exchange is the most important element, as this balances who I am. One day way down the line, I’d like to be 24/7 Looking for those individuals actively involved in the BDSM lifestyle. I am selective about those I surround myself with...with good rea. I don't necessarily feel I am looking for a certain per...just like minded individuals. I do practice SSC(RACK)and safe sex. The dominant…what do I need him to bring to the table? I am a mom first…property second. I will ask you for references...be prepared please. I need my dominant to be stable in their own peral life..available, open, present and participating in the relationship. I need physical, sexual, emotional and spiritual bonding. I need my time with him, just for me. I need you to be the stable force behind our relationship. That is after all how I become the heart of him. What you see is what you get. I am a no bullshit kind of per. I've already been through my shit, not looking to do it again. I have a great outlook on life, sense of humor and compassionate. I know who I am and what I want. You should too. I am a submissive and I love it.

My Ideal Person I don't anticipate finding my Dominant match here, but if it happens....Woooofuckinghooo! I am interested in and in search of those in the BDSM lifestyle for friends and play.

I can often be found in the basement chat room. If you plan to visit me there, please be respectful to those you encounter while chatting there.

So be patient, good things come to those who wait. Right now I am having a great time making new friends and having fun.

I am expecting that you be disease free as I am.

I am a mom first, woman second. I do know that my playmates should be understanding of parenting. Don't like that? Then I am not the one you are looking for. That's cool. If you are looking for a cool friend...drop me a line.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
too many to list

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, want to know more as if that is not enough, just ask

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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