Hello out there, happy to be here in AFF land again. I was on this site for a long time then I took a break and now i'm back. I'm a basically 40 year old man who is looking for a single woman or a couple looking for a man in their sex life. I have experience with both on here. I work a lot and am the public face of an organization so that is why my face isn't visible. I'm not trying to be mysterious or weird I just have to protect my public image and by proxy, my job. I promise you though I have a kind handsome face with all my teeth and everything in it's right place and more importantly I know how to treat a woman physically and emotionally and love pleasing my partners as nothing gives me more joy. I have always been a more sensual lover and my favorite fantasy sexually is meeting someone in the dark or near dark and making it so that all we have is our touches and voices and we can just explore each other slowly and softly. I can definitely do the dom thing and have more aggressive sex when the time calls for it, but if all things are equal I like to take my time and foreplay and oral are top priorities. I also love to give sensual massages. Don't get me wrong, I love actual sex too...I mean that's why we're all here, but I just love the build up as well. I am not a wham bam thank you maam kind of guy who comes over and finishes in 2 minutes and leaves. Unless of course we're at the stage where a random quickie can happen somewhere then that's different ;). As for physical stats i'm your typical 40 year old Oregon white guy. I'm 6'0 tall with an average build (220 lbs) and I shave most of my body so I have a very smooth physique. I like to tell people my eyebrows are the only hair on my body. I will say if you're looking for a hairy grizzly bear then unfortunately i'm not that guy. I'm very clean and hygienic which shouldn't be a huge bar to pass, but women have told me in the past how that cleanliness and showering isn't always a given with men. I'm also drug and disease free and I don't smoke anything so no breath issues. I've also had a vasectomy as well. I am more than happy to exchange messages and get to know each other better first or just meet somewhere for drinks or somewhere to just hang out. I am not pushy and can move at whatever speed you are comfortable with. If you're the type who doesn't need much or any communication beforehand I can also easily schedule some time and just come over wherever and "get to know you" that way as well. 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I get to know someone here on AFF ahead of time and ask if they are into this first and foremost. If so then the following is what I would absolutely love to do and fantasize about. We set a meeting most likely in one of our residences for later at night. I come up to the location and the door is unlocked. I come in the place and announce myself. You are somewhere ready for me and call me to you. I go to where you are. The place is dark and there's just enough light to find my way around. I come to the room where you are at and make my way in. The room is dark, pitch black or near it. I walk up to you and reach out lightly touching your arm and making my way down to the side of your thighs. You are also touching me in various parts of my body. We start kissing and taking in the sounds, smells, and touch of each other and take our time. Slowly we start undressing each other, revealing skin here and there and touching it ever so slowly. We inevitably start revealing and uncovering more until we are standing naked with each other. My hands exploring more and more of your beautiful body and yours mine. We start to feel how excited we are for each other. I start barely touching your stiff nipples and noticing you are starting to quiver a bit. You are noticing and feeling that I have a hard throbbing cock that is aching for attention. I also start feeling lower on your body, making my way to your luscious ass and moving back towards the front and slowly running my hand past your now wet pussy that tells me without words or light that you are feeling the same way. We make our way to the bed and continue with the heavy touching and kissing. Now you are slowly stroking my cock and i'm starting to gently rub the outside of your pussy just enough to keep the tension rising. As we are getting more and more turned on I move to spread your legs and stick my tongue deep in your pussy. I love eating pussy and I keep going making sure to lick the clit, but not too much, we don't want to rush things. I slowly start inserting a finger in as well. First one, then two, then... I stop. You're now fully turned on and I ask you whether I should continue? Your response is to push me on my back and start to return the favor. Feeling your mouth around my cock is glorious and you lick everywhere. I start to get lost in lust and get close to finishing so I stop you and we start kissing again to cool things down a bit. You ask me to please fuck you after all this teasing so I stick my newly wet cock into your already wet and inviting pussy. The feeling with the continued darkness and touching and talking amplifies the pleasure. You are talking to me telling me how good it feels. We continue with some good fucking and we can feel we're getting close. We hear each other breathing harder and harder and it's becoming near impossible to even get a word out. One of us says "i'm close" so we get heavier and heavier until I ask if I can cum inside you and you pull me closer grabbing my ass and back with all your force so that there is no other choice and we cum at the same time in orgasmic glory. Only then can the lights come on a bit and we can see the physical beauty knowing that it didn't really matter because we were as one on a different level. That's my favorite fantasy. Favorite encounter - This is one of those unfair questions like, what's your favorite movie. I have so many fond memories from encounters in life that choosing one almost seems disrespectful. So I'll say one of my top favorite encounters was when I was about 20-25 years old. I started using AFF during this time and I wasn't very sexually experienced. I wasn't a virgin, but we'll just say the experiences were short and humiliating and confusing and not the best memories. I post a profile and end up being contacted by this much older woman about 20 years my senior. I was into older women, but didn't really expect someone to contact me like that. She was into younger men and especially inexperienced younger men. It was almost a dream come true and honestly I was apprehensive to believe she was real. We got to know each other a bit and met in public then we planned to meet at her place. I came in and was a nervous wreck because I hadn't been with a woman in a long time and also I thought she was super sexy and out of my league. The second I came in and our eyes met and she saw how uncomfortable and nervous I was she walked over to me, undid my pants and got on her knees and started sucking me off. I was in a bit of shock because it was so sudden. No surprise I was ready to blow in a matter of seconds and said she should stop or i'm going to cum, but she kept going and I told her I was cumming and she pulled her shirt down exposing her large breasts and jerked me until I exploded all over her chest. I had a large build up and it went all over the place. I had one of the most intense orgasms ever. She then cleaned herself off and said "there, now you can relax and have a good time, that's only the first." She proceeded to talk to me normally like before and the rest of the night was filled with a number of firsts and many orgasms for both of us. I honestly didn't know my cock could get hard that many times and shoot every time. She taught me many things especially about orally pleasing a woman. I gave her two different orgasms with my mouth and it felt GOOD. We tried anal and even though I had already cum 4 times that night it was so tight and her voice was so sexy I was able to stay hard enough for it and came inside her ass. I admit anal isn't my favorite thing nowadays, but it can be powerful. I actually had multiple encounters with her getting better at sex each time. As with many things in life we slowly drifted away, but I especially remember this night because it was my sexual awakening. If only more tension filled times in life could be solved with a quick dose of oral, haha.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is someone who wants the company of a mature adult man who will make them feel good inside and out. I am age and size agnostic, seriously. I love BBW women and SSBBW women just as much as a smaller lady. I would happily connect with someone much younger or older than me as well. I have found that I can connect with people of all ages and in the end age is just a number and sex can be fun with everyone.

Having said that I do love people who are not afraid to take charge and know what they want. A woman who kisses first or tells me what they like and talks a lot during sex blows my mind. I don't want to scare away submissives because I am also a confident guy who can take the lead as well and have fun. Women who are confident and comfortable in their bodies are also amazing to me. I don't break women down into body parts because I love the whole picture.

Basically i'm open to a lot of different people and I hope to find somebody here who feels the same. It would be great to find an ongoing FWB situation or with a couple who want to have a 3rd that will join their escapades.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I always had a crush Linda Fiorentino when she was still
acting in movies. The Last Seduction is one of the best movies
ever and rarely has an actress turned as much as her.
She was never the "hottest" ticket in town, but I think she
is gorgeous and more importantly she just oozes sexuality
and confidence in herself. Her smoky voice and the way she
moves and acts it's paralyzing in a way because any movie
she is i'm entranced watching her scenes and this day I can
still pop any of her movies and watch.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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