Yes I am a real person, in the Hudson Valley, and who is looking to actually meet in-person. My pictures are recent and I am willing to send another for confirmation if asked. While I recently turned 48, but I look and act younger. I am a hard-working professional and a single parent, both of which are just starting to cause a few gray hairs. I enjoy activities that cause a shortness of breath, an elevated heart rate, and a spike of adrenaline. I go to the gym regularly, remain active, have a rescue dog, and enjoy keeping in shape, while still enjoying dessert. Ask about my favorite activities, I am happy to share my passions. I am educated, well traveled, witty, and have a sense of humor (which is usually laced with a touch of sarcasm). I understand the importance of grammar (including the differences between the uses of their, theyre, and there) and can hold a conversation. I can easily dress up or dress down, and am quite comfortable in most environments (mostly due to my unique upbringing). More than anything, I tend to not take myself too seriously, am quite laid back on my off time, and DO NOT harbor any jealous, possessive, or serial killer tendencies. To sum it up, I am sane, normal, the boy-next-door type. I am looking for something casual, mutually enjoyable and discreet, but I am not interested in collecting notches on my headboard. I am not looking to change my situation or yours. As the title states, your time is your time, our time is our time.

My Ideal Person Someone who is comfortable in her own skin, laid back, sensual and responsive (either verbally or non-vernally). Someone who knows what she wants and likes, but remains open minded and willing to experiment or push outside their comfort level on occasion. Someone who is discreet, and while communication is a cornerstone of any relationship, respects boundaries and understands that I may not always be available. If something in my profile piques your interest, drop me a message or an IM. I will always reply, even if to say we might not be compatible. I would appreciate the same courtesy. If I dont reply, chances are I missed the message and we might have to resort to alternative communication methods, whether thru my box, the G type, or app; most of which I can be found under modernagenomad or some variation.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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