Update: My wife no longer participates (at this point). I am left to manage on my own but not all alone. I am fun, safe, adventurous, vas safe, and respectful. That doesn't mean I can't get down and dirty. I like roleplaying, BDSM, exploring and love, absolutely love, to give a woman oral. I am told my enthusiasm shows and causes multiple orgasms. I'm not bragging, but.... I can carry on a conversation and would love to have a friend couple. I am a non-smoker but would be very happy to play with a woman who does (excuse the expression but it's kinda hot and naughty. All body types are welcome but special attention is paid to women with curves. Friends with benefits are most desirable as I am not looking for volume, but rather a light hearted, fun, quality woman or couple. We recently did STD panels and are drug and disease free.