I’m in a polyamorous marriage and we solo date. I love sex but I also enjoy great company. I love the outdoors when it’s not 100+. I’m witty and sarcastic and my flirting is making fun of each other, if you can dish it as well as you can take it then you might be my match. I’d like to think I fall between a little extra padding and bbw but it’s all about perspective, isn’t it? I’m looking for a dominant person to give me a little of what I’m missing. That does not mean rough sex, if that’s what you think being dominant means leave me tf alone. My husband and I practice enm. I know that’s an issue for some people, I won’t be offended if that’s not your cup of tea. He’s not involved, and he won’t ever be. I’m not looking for a unicorn, nor do I want to be yours.

My Ideal Person Someone local, witty, funny and intelligence doesn’t hurt. I would ideally like to meet a second partner, no hookups. This person would understand that I am in a committed relationship that I have no intention on ever leaving. I don’t participate in one night stands, if that’s what you’re looking for search elsewhere. My ideal partner would already be in the lifestyle. It’s very important that we have chemistry and that we enjoy each other’s company. If all you want to talk about is sex before we’ve even met, I’m not the one for you. I have no patience for good sex and a bad personality, respectfully.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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