We have been together for several years and have been involved in almost every aspect of the lifestyle. We have been with couples, single males and single females, attended hotel and house parties, as well as meeting individuals and couples. At this point, we are primarily looking for single males for her. The ideal guy is very confident and loves to take control. A bull/cuckold arrangement would be preferable, but not necessarily a requirement. We are new to that area, so he would have to "make it happen". We would really love to find someone for an ongoing arrangement, who understands his part of the relationship and, above all, honesty and openness with regard to anything and everything between him and us. He may meet with us as a couple, or with her alone with the understanding that everything is open and honest between us. We would like to find someone with whom we can all be friends in and out of the bedroom, but he would clearly be sexually dominant in the relationship