While my husband and I vacationed at Hedo 2 in Jamaica, AFF decided to un-grandfather our Gold membership status. Their new "rules" require us to send or reply to 10 messages a day. What REAL COUPLE gets messages from 10 profiles a DAY? None that I know of, certainly not in New England. I argued with them to no avail and we no longer have access to our messages. My apologies to those of you who reached out as we're no longer able to communicate. It would appear that AFF doesn't give a FUCK about real people with Lifestyle leanings who want to meet like-minded people for fun and friendship. They're more interested in their bottom line and only "gift" Gold memberships to cam girls/couples. How they can justify $180 a year for a service that has barely provided 3 play partners for us in 3 years is mind-boggling. Long story short, I won't be updating this profile any longer. Enjoy perving what's here. Find us on SLS. Good Luck. A chilled fun couple who are locking for similar. Fun in and out of the bedroom is the ideal.We are very real and don't appreciate time-wasters or bullshitters. If we agree to meet we will do so. Clichéd I know, but no Ken and Barbie although we also don't consider ourselves unattractive. She's HWP but there's a few 'battle scars'. He's a little heavier but most is muscle. Fairly easy going and tolerant in most areas in sex and life. Mojo, SatinSheetDreams, Hedo - when we can. We play together or separate, but prefer together. Hall pass is an option with the right people but with single males we always play as a threesome first. We are in a D/s relationship with her as the sub, but don't usually bring this into swinging encounters or parties. We try to keep our swinging more mainstream, unless it's a thing for all involved. She usually enjoys her sex hard and vigorous and loves to deep throat with the right guy, or enjoy her tongue deep in the right woman. He adapts to the situation and can be gentle or rough depending on who he's with, as he loves to please.

My Ideal Person One night stands can be huge fun but we usually prefer FWB, even if just occasional, as we find chemistry on more than just the physical level makes the sex so much better. Quality over quantity. But it's situational and sometimes things just click and the bedroom calls.

How far we go depends on the people we're with. Ideally we want to meet singles or couples who are relaxed and tolerant and accepting in their outlook of life. But then who doesn't want the ideal match? The reality is personality is a must as that's the No.1 turn on for both of us. Looks and shape count a little but come second. We prefer closer to HWP than toooo far the opposite direction, but try to judge each person on their own merits, because we prefer sex with people we click with socially.

She's very bi, so we prefer couples with a bi female but not a deal breaker as she's also happy with a deep, hard fucking.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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