StressReliefFrnd 52 / M
"Looking for a casual drama free friendship"
White Plains, New York, United States
 
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StressReliefFrnd 52/M
White Plains, New York
Introduction
Ok lets get real here for a second. Can I just be honest with you and cut the bull shit. I am not going to marry you, sponsor your green card, or be your sugars daddy. If that is what you are looking for - wrong guy. I possess far more than average intelligence so if you are looking for an easy mark to scam - there are far better marks than me. If you are just looking for a quick fuck - while there are times that may sound intriguing - I care too much about staying safe and care about your health and mine to just fuck anyone knowing that if they are just fucking me then at some place we are both going to lose the numbers game and end up with some form of health risk neither of us wants. I am also not going to get involved with someone who lives more than an hour away and even more than 30 minutes is probably pushing it for what I want. So I do have a blog on here and if you want to be pen pals… totally good with that. Just contact me and say that but lets just be realistic that we are all busy and we aren’t going to make some distant thing work if we are talking more than an illusion and maybe a 1 time fling. So by now you have a bit of a picture of me. I am a strong, confident, professional man. Intelligent. I know what I want and I know what I don’t want. I am not looking for a traditional dating relationship or I would be on one of the more traditional dating web sites. I am single and come with no drama but I am not looking for my future wife or a LTR. What I am ideally seeking is a Long Term Friendship. I am looking for connection. I am an open liberal person and I believe in polyamory without being slutty and non-discriminating. I am not judging you if you are looking for different things but we won’t be a match. I want someone who is verbal and thoughtful and seeks connection. So if you post has only 1 line on it and tells me nothing about who you are on only referring to having sex - you will find plenty of men on here happy to help. I am not one of them. I want real conversation, real connection, and yeah… real sex if we can make it through all of that.

My Ideal Person You have a profile that actually says something that intrigues my mind. You are physically and mentally active. You are fit. That doesn’t mean you are a super model and starve yourself or you have six pack abs. Yes, I love six pack abs… but I don’t have them either and there are far more important things that are important to me. But if you are going to keep up with me you can’t be a couch potato either. I want someone who has some energy… fine if you are submissive but if you are totally passively submissive and don’t have your own will and some feisty in you then we aren’t a match. You are looking for an awesome friend with some potential benefit and you aren’t playing the numbers game on here where you want 50 people with benefits. You are open. You are trusty worthy and honest and will speak your mind. You are youthful which doesn’t mean you are young. That means you are optimistic, still have dreams and find excitement in the world. You are mature. I don’t really care how old you are but you have to be mature enough so we can have a conversation about things. Age may just be a # but there is a balance of maturity and youthfulness that I am looking for no matter what your number may be. You are open - if you are just looking for plain vanilla - I may be more than you can handle. I am dominant without being domineering and I enjoy pushing people’s boundaries and having mine pushed a little. It keeps things fun and exciting and I am all for that.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage, They need a longer list

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 52 / male
  • White Plains, New York, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Women or Couples (man/woman)
Birthdate: April 4, 1969
Relocate?: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Separated
Height: 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Prefer not to say
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Prefer not to say
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Salt and Pepper
Eye Color: Blue