Openness and honesty come first before anything. I say it as I see it but I also have strange mind which makes for an excellent sense of humour. That's what I think! I was had been very active in the adult dating scene before I was married and so I come here with experience. I am self employed, very busy and unable to give enough to a full relationship but my time is flexible and I can be available. I'm not looking for ONS, I want something more. I want someone who can hold a good conversation and is imaginative. Don't worry, my mind is very creative but its best when there is someone to bat off of! I particularly like a woman who likes to wear lingerie, nylon and heels. This really turns me on and means you get the best of me. I am not into lots of texting but like to meet for coffee and go from there.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage, Nylon and Heels

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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