I’m 51 years old, fit and love a range of activities both cerebral and physical. I am married, and my wife is supportive of my play. We On the physical side I love hiking, running and sailing. I sail mostly in the Caribbean and try to do catamaran charter with friends at least once a year. On the cerebral side, I am a voracious reader. Important books include The Fountainhead, The Book of Five Rings, and Stranger in a Strange Land. Nonfiction like Nothing Like it In the World, The Wild Blue, and various historical biographies. For fun I read lots of science fiction and fantasy. Interestingly, I originally listed some of my favorite authors in this paragraph, but AFF rejected my profile for containing “personal contact information.” This was especially strange as all of the authors I listed were dead... Regarding my marital status: Yes, I am married. Yes, my wife knows about all of my play. Most of my playmates are our good friends. Of course new friends are good too.... Sexually I enjoy all combinations of group play and am very comfortable playing with couples. I also have lots of experience with D/s. Its not an indispensable part of play for me, but I do enjoy it. With regard to D/s play, I enjoy both rope bondage and leather cuffs and collars. I am not into extreme pain or any injury, but enjoy spanking, whips, paddles, and similar devises used carefully. I have a great deal of experience with breath play and pride myself on enjoying it safely. I also enjoy all kinds of domination and power exchange, forced orgasms, orgasm denial and all kinds of sexual control. More than any one fetish, though, I most enjoy sexual intensity with other intense kinky people. The specific play is really more of a vehicle for that dynamic than an ends unto itself. I love all kinds of sex play, but mostly love spending time with smart, intense, kinky women and couples. If that is you, get in touch!

My Ideal Person Kinkiness and intensity are much more important to me than appearance or age. If you re truly uninhibited and have extreme and intense desires, I would love to know more about you.