Sleepy_Geek 48 / M
"FetLife- SleepyGeek ...more info there."
Lexington, Kentucky, United States
 
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Sleepy_Geek 48/M
Lexington, Kentucky
Anyone looking to make a new friend?
Introduction
Cis men, I'm picky as fuck....so don't get your hopes up. I'm also not here to pay anyone for anything. I have a varied history and life story. World traveled, mostly attached to some sort of military unit. I am a pagan, polyamorous, pansexual male Top. I've been in the BDSM lifestyle for many years and apply the concepts of trust and consent to all play. That said, I do not force my kinks onto others, nor am I going to try to "sell you" on the idea of being kinky. If you're just looking for vanilla sex, I can definitely roll with that. I have a collared girl, who may or may not join in play. That decision will be made after I know you better as a partner. We have recently moved back to the area and definitely in the market for like-minded friends. Especially since lockdown pretty well decimated the local kink community we knew and loved. I/we enjoy movie nights, dinners out, and gaming (primarily XBox). I also enjoy the geekier side of life with a decent collection of Magic cards and TTRPGs. We're both fully vaxxed. We prefer RACK and practice safer sex practices. Willing to consider hosting once we know you as we have several play areas, and are willing to entertain people separately or together. We will likely be together for all initial meetings because we both value transparency in our relationship. Will potentially convert to a paid couple's account in the future....but for now, the subject line above is probably the best way to reach me or us.

My Ideal Person Honest and genuine. If you can't be yourself, I have no use for you in my life.

Prefer the outliers.....inked, pierced, queer, poly folks. Know who you are and what you want out of life. Kink-familiar a plus, but not required...again, not going to try to make you be someone you're not. Leatherfolk are a big win. If I'm flagging and you know what's what, you're aces in my book.

Anything else you want to know, just ask.
-Dave

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 48 / male
  • Lexington, Kentucky, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women) or Trans
Birthdate: January 30, 1976
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Attached
Height: 5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say
Education: Associate degree (2 years college)
Occupation: Employed
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Spiritual
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Average/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Other Hair Color
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Green
Glasses or Contacts: Either