We're in our 40s, and are both professionals, so discretion is a must. Over-educated and highly sexual, attraction in our minds is both physical and mental- smart, sexy, and cool describes what we're looking for in new friends. Her: Petite brunette, small firm breasts with amazing nips, and a wonderful round bum. Finds proper use of the subjunctive really hot. Has been described as the hot librarian type. Shy at first, she appreciates wit and charm over flash and boisterousness. She's always classy in public, and appreciates a man who turns himself out well. Him: Athletic blond- not musclebound, not flabby. She loves his swimmer's arms and shoulders. Sense of humor as dry as the martinis he makes. The joker and the instigator of the pair. Wishes he were better at using the subjunctive. If you're intrigued so far, let us know. An interesting response will get you a pic (g-rated at first... with the potential for more if the attraction's there.)

My Ideal Person Looking for other sexy couples who enjoy shared erotic experiences. After splashing around in the shallow end of the lifestyle for almost a decade, we're eyeing the deep end. All our experiences so far have been soft swap, but we're open to same room full swap if the stars align.

We prefer to spend time with couples who are well-traveled and share our enthusiasm for good food and wine, and who enjoy sexy conversations in a lounge over shouted ones on a dance floor. Although we don't rule anything out, we tend to reserve our playtime for vacations and trips outside of Boise. We're frequently in Vegas, Portland, and Mexico (Desire).

She has occasionally enjoyed touching and being touched by another woman, but girl-girl play is not her main focus and is always situational. His sole attraction is to women.

Her comfort and rapport with the other woman (in a non-sexual way) really drives how open to play we'll be, and how intense that play will be.