Hello everyone; I've been on this site for a minute now but am just getting around to sending more information about myself. I just very recently moved to San Francisco, and yes it would be nice to find the 'man of my dreams' here but that's not why I'm here and that my friend is a story for another time. Suffice it to say, I'm at an age where I do not have time or the inkling to play games. I am in physical terms a Queen and deserve only the best, including my men/partners, in spiritual terms I am a Goddess and only want someone around me who will recognize and treat me accordingly in every respect and see us both as equals. My man must see himself as my equal and self-confident as my King; otherwise we will be wasting both of our time. I enjoy travelling, meeting new people, playing chess (when I can), conversing on intellectual and stimulating topics, listening to jazz, eating at interesting restaurants, reading, learning new and fascinating things, etc, but in all that I am a true introvert and am quite ensconced in my home having my alone-time. Finally, we come to the significant portion of this bio and that is sex. When I first came to this site I wasn't sure what I would find or what I would be looking for. I will say this, I enjoy having sex with men and women; I enjoy catering to my partner every bit as much as I enjoy someone taking their time making love to me. However, there are times, those rare moments where I just want raw sex, PERIOD! I thoroughly am comfortable with being the passive partner, in fact I enjoy that above all else, but as I stated earlier, I can give as well as I receive.

My Ideal Person A person who at least understands that to hurt another is to hurt thyself.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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