Searching for an in-person Dom who wants both the sexual and emotional side of a dynamic. A man who needs to take control as much as I need to surrender. Submission is not a game or a role I play in the bedroom. It's a lifestyle, the core of who I am as a very sexual, erotic, kinky woman...searching for a man who doesn't "play Dom" but IS Dom. A man who cherishes taking on responsibility for his submissive's well-being and growth in exchange for her devotion, service, and love. (Old school style BDSM - no 50 Shades BS) My style is primal, can be a SAM for sure, worshipping, and edgy. I like psychologically dark extremes and can see our D/s turning more M/s if things go right. Love the blend of Spiritual Primal - Brat Primal - Affectionate Dom. And I'm a rope bunny who'd love a Rigger. Specifically searching for a man who thinks it's sexy when I challenge him (intellectually) and can best me into submitting sexually. Personality Info: INTJ, Enneagram 8 == Results from bdsm test== 100% Submissive 100% Brat 100% Primal (Prey) 100% Rope bunny 95% Degradee 76% Boy/Girl 75% Pet 65% Vanilla 65% Masochist 55% Slave 47% Experimentalist 28% Non-monogamist 7% Voyeur 3% Exhibitionist 1% Ageplayer 0% Switch Not Gold - Send K! !K