I’m open to encounters, but am mostly looking for a long term partner who is open, dynamic, and wild as I am. Traditional dating sites have never been for me. I think there are two types of people. There are those who enjoy sex, and there are those of us who are sexual beings. So it makes sense that when searching for a new partner, that I explore avenues where I am likely to encounter individuals whose drive matches my own. I've just always found that people who are sexual beings are not just passionate in the bedroom, but equally passionate about life. For what it’s worth, I’m pretty down to Earth and if we met on the street, your first reaction would be, “What a pleasant, nice guy.” And I'm proudly and successfully a truly nice guy. I find that it’s always worked well for me in all areas of life, and that it’s entirely possible to be charming and kind, while also being a sexually passionate, strong, voracious lover. And through it, I’ve become very sexually experienced. I enjoy a life of adventure and hedonism, chasing the silly and irreverent. But this doesn’t mean a lack of responsibility. I’m stable with a career in medicine that I love, a paid off house, no debts, no , no history of STDs, a vasectomy, HPV and Covid vaxxines. I have a rich social group and spend my nights with friends and loved ones. It’s not hard to find that balance between responsible and wild, where lasting happiness exists. At the end of the day, there is nothing that matters in the world except happiness and the moments of joy we find and pursue in the moment. We can't take our wealth with us. We can't take our memories with us. All we have is the opportunity to appreciate them in the moment. So I pursue experience, the silly, the magical, and the irreverent. I’ve always been sex-positive, and have been in the lifestyle for over 15 years, and in that time have a certain level of confidence in what I am about and what I enjoy. I’ve never been the type who can just have sex. I’ve experienced threesomes and orgies in my time, but have found that without a certain level of mental attraction and connection, it just feels empty and hollow. So to those ends, I’ve always pursued intimacy with people who I find interesting, intelligent, and respectable, whether it leads to sex or not. I don't want your body. I want your spirit and soul. In doing so I can allow myself to effectively be head over heels in love with that partner, but also respectable enough to leave it in the bedroom if the situation dictates. And when I am connected, I’m naturally carnal. I hesitate to use the word dominant because I dislike the misdirection to S&M. (It’s fine enough, but I disdain the disingenuousness of the role play by most, preferring the direction of passion to evolve organically.) For me it’s more a genuine desire to take and ravish without a putting on of artificial roles. I enjoy feeling strong as I take my partner. I find that this has also lended itself well to women who want to feel desired, lusted after, and ravaged. I’ve always found that I take pleasure in helping my partners find what they are looking for and am naturally adaptable to their passion style. I enjoy pushing boundaries and teaching people to become their most sexually advanced version of themselves to experience more. I’ve been the bulls in long running cuckold relationships. (While I won’t personally demean the cuckold, I’m okay facilitating the cuckold’s opportunity to watch his mate with a more aggressive man.) I’ve been the stunt cock in threesome relationships where the wife wants to be DPed regularly, or needs a cock more filling. I’ve been the secret side-man. I’ve been the teacher. I’ve been the friend with benefits. I’ve been the pure romantic lover. I’ve been the male talent in porn. I’ve had regular "forced" fantasy relationships where the rule was I had to overpower her and take her through any means necessary. In general, I’m very open minded and nonjudgmental, so long as no one gets hurt. Personality wise, I tend to live larger than life. I’m quirky, happy-go-lucky, and eccentric. My life is essentially the endless pursuit of knowledge, passion, and as many experiences as I can squeeze in before my time runs out. I've been on TV shows. I'm a cognitive science researcher. I enjoy dueling as a hobby, and frequently find myself in costumes if it makes an event more memorable. And yes, I do make my own as I'm a crafty SOB. I’m a full on nerd, and living my best life. I have a full, immersive VR set up in my home. I run a D&D campaign with over 50 players. I host board game nights with the city's elite. Nerdy does not mean tame. But if you think you can keep up, or just want to hang on to the roller coaster for a while, say hello.

My Ideal Person Someone passionate. I'm looking for someone who is likewise education, and an overachiever in life. I want someone who is driven by her passions and is not content to just sit back and watch TV while life passes by.

Let's embrace existence. Let's get out there and be active. Let's howl and the moon and crow at the dawn. Let's sleep in after a night of passion. Let's get up early for adventure. Let's make our friend's jealous that we're that power couple that others judge themselves by.

Age, nor race, nor height, nor body size are a concern to me. For me, it's entirely about that passion of character and that confidence. Just please be responsible. I'm always down for a wine, and am 420 friendly, but am not so into smokers. I'm a very scent based person, so hygiene is essential, but I've learned that it is something worth putting here because not everyone maintains themselves in such a way.

Otherwise, reach out and say hello. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
They Might Be Giants, Type O Negative, KMFDM, Mr Bungle

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Anal Sex, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Lust for life and intelligence.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Less of the actress and more of the character. Mantis from
Guardians of the Galaxy. That innocence is adorable.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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