NotUrAvgDOM 53 / M
"Intellectual Seeking Stimulating Uninhibited Intellectual. I have many layers!!!!"
West Des Moines, Iowa, United States
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NotUrAvgDOM 53/M
West Des Moines, Iowa
Merry Christmas, let us get stoned
(open to a FEM road trippin' with me, you have to be mostly sane or at least no more crazy than me)!!!! Let’s make this simple. We are all our own people and we are here looking for others that are accepting, open, uninhibited, non-judgmental, and supportive of those of us that VANILLA doesn’t only not work for, it actually has a negative impact on our sexuality/interest & performance. I am completely open and uninhibited and have full respect for everyone’s unique preferences AS LONG AS IT’S ALL DONE WILLINGLY, FULLY INFORMED, AND IN A SAFE ENVIRONMENT FOR ALL. I choose to share my pics with those that there is intent to get to know. We all must protect our reputations on some level. If that is unacceptable, best wishes in your search and take care. I have years of experience training DOMs, and DOMMEs, as well as subs/cucks/hot wives. Come chat....be polite & respectful. If you aren't 420 friendly, please continue your search. I choose 420 over Western Pharmaceuticals and that isn't going to change, ever again. We can discuss further if details are wanted. Just like the rest, they are all personal choices and we all need to respect each others. We don't have to agree with them; participate in them; or have anything to do with those activities that don't fit your lifestyle. Please respect the rest of us enough to let us enjoy what we do, without harm to others. I don't mind traveling and or visitors. I spend time in CO (eventual move there), Kansas City, Minneapolis, Chicago, etc. I don't mind hosting if you are traveling. NO matter if you are local or from 'across the pond', vetting will happen prior to any serious information being exchanged, etc. Served USAF 87-97. THANK YOU to ALL and I look forward to an uninhibited journey of making friends and lovers!!! Very devoted nylon fetish; a part of daily life. If this is an issue, again best wishes on your search and thank you for stopping by. 8/3/19 Update - Again, yes I have pics in my FRIENDS network. I have G Rated pics, and X Rated pics. Everyone that I become friends with on here, defaults to the G Rated folder. If you want to see X Rated, just ask. No, not every sexual encounter or intimate moment is about the LifeStyle. Like anything else, communication makes all the difference. I can only partially read minds so if you don’t tell me what you are thinking/feeling/wanting/interested in, please don’t get pissed when I have no clue about the WHAT. Send a MESSAGE If you want a response. IM isn't reliable....meaning it doesn't work at all. WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

No interest in spending alone time with males.

All of these characteristics matter in any meaningful relationship.....in relationships such as those in OUR communities, they are TRIPLY IMPORTANT to the foundation of allowing our freedoms to be expressed and embraced by those that crave at the SOUL level. Send a message; let’s chat. Be polite & respectful or there will be automatic blocking. If you are soliciting, I will report you immediately. Already to be on this site for a reason. If you aren't real, please move along, I'm not interested.

What I'm not looking for: sex workers flooding my inbox on a site that I already have to pay to be a member. I will not interact with you, I will REPORT and DELETE IMMEDIATELY. It isn't too difficult to figure out which ones are fake (A LOT are). What happened to just being good ADULTS and HUMANS to each other.....

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage, TRY, ME

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, TRUST

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 53 / male
  • West Des Moines, Iowa, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women) or Trans
Birthdate: June 21, 1969
Relocate?: Yes
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm
Body Type: Slim/Petite
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Drugs: I use some recreational drugs
Education: Some college
Occupation: Employed
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Long/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: None
My Trophy Case: