Not so new to this! We are a very secure in our relationship. We are laidback and almost always up for a new adventure. We want to make new friends in and out of the bedroom. We are empty nesters and love to host. Out of the bedroom we both love to cook, live music, and a good dive bar. She is thick in all the right places. She is a bit shy at first, but once she is comfortable, she's a blast! She does on occasion play separately with other couples. He has never met a stranger and brings plenty to the party! NO SINGLE MALES!