Straight, CIS man seeking FWB, not a "relationship," but a real friendship with benefits. Or, something casual, ONS, NSA, even just watching sometimes. Separated. A pretty high-profile college professor and writer (published and everything) so discretion counts.5x vaxed. Live in South Florida. Sapiosexual, your mind is your most important erogenous zone. Playful, flirtatious, serious conversations are a major turn on. LOVE good music, mostly classic rock, some classical and jazz. Jam band fans to the front of the line (Check out the tattoo.) Also into film, books, garage sales, out-of-the- way and interesting restaurants -- Ethiopian, anyone? Dim sum? Enjoy cooking and baking. (Which usually comes out well.) Threesomes or groups are a turn-on. But so is just plain sweaty, noisy sex, me pleasing you, you pleasing me. I am really, really, *really* oral and foreplay is key. I enjoy the risk of semi-public or office sex. But satisfying my partner is the most important thing. I want to hear you breath, gasp and moan, feel you squirm with cuddling, foreplay, intense touching, playful and passionate kissing, eating pussy before even thinking about doing the deed I can be a little shy and awkward until I feel comfortable. Consider it part of my charm. ;-) One other thing... I've heard from way too many beautiful young women who say they're somewhere abroad, or live close by with their grandma, or happen to be in town, or work in finance or design and real estate, or invest in crypto and can help me make a lot of money. I know the scam, so go away.

My Ideal Person Your age and ethnicity aren't important, but you're sexy, with a slim to average body, maybe a little thick, but not BBW. (Sorry, but it is what it is.)
And you're smart. I love, love, love sex, but having something to talk about is important.
You're discreet. I need to be and maybe you do, too.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
The Grateful Dead, The Band, Bruce,

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I love the idea of semi-public sex. Also office sex, after
hours.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage, Fucking

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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