Alright....time to change up the 'ABOUT ME'.... I think I am closing in on 3 years here, now. I have met some really cool people. Most have become friends. I have had some really delicious encounters (honestly just a few but still great). I have even met one of my best guy friends a girl could ever ask for. We may not speak often but we know we got each others backs (He's got mine, mostly). I have not been very social here for the past year, but that is because my real life, trying to make sense of shit in my life, mom life, etc, come first. I don't have time for games and to be honest, I don't really feel I am into the whole hookup thing anymore. Sure, there are those times when it just needs to happen, but I would really like more than that. I am not looking to "fall in love," yet. But I would like a A MATURE MAN WHO KNOWS HOW TO PROPERLY TREAT A LADY and not use her simply for his own quick release. A hardy FWB type situation where we can actually spend some time together once maybe twice a week. I am not opposed to finding more friends. Friends are good. And if that is where we stay, I'm good with that. At least be open to the possibility of maybe "seeing where it goes should it seem RIGHT." Guys, you have no idea how frustrating it is (some of you may) when someone won't take the time to get to know you. #1 I am a human being. Quite funny on most occasions, lover of life and can be pretty sensitive. I don't want to become a cold hearted bitch. It gets us nowhere. #2 I am not made of silicone nor do I come in a box. So please, if you ONLY want a fuck doll, by all means go buy yourself one. Take the time to get to know me a little bit. I am into exploring. I want to start going to sexy events. Truly experience the lifestyle and what it is like for 2 people enjoying each other to be completely (with boundaries or it is pointless) open-minded. I don't care if you are a man or a woman. I love both sexes, very much. And to all of you ever so cute, wish you were around when I was in high school YOUNG YOUNG MEN.....I AM NOT A COUGAR AND DO NOT CLAIM TO BE. I think it is sweet you show up in my inbox, but I am not nor will I ever be interested in you in that manner. If you are younger than 34 expect to be rejected if you give it a shot. I am into a lot of things, but if you are within the ages of my spawn , that is how I see you. As young ones. No matter how old they get they will always be my spawn and I can't get into that. So thanks. I would prefer men to be at least 37 and please no one going through a midlife crisis thinking he needs to conquer as much pussy as humanly possible. Us ladies are not a free for all. If you have gotten this far and are still interested, then, well, you have peaked my interest also. Oh ... one more thing.....YOU CAN IN NO WAY WHATSOEVER BE ATTACHED (have a partner, girlfriend/boyfriend, or married) Please do not tell me you are separated and NOT be. I have my ways of finding out right in front of you and from you without you being knowledgeable of me doing so. You will get caught and that will be the end of that. If you have a shitty sex life with your SO, seek a marriage counselor. Not me. I am not captain save a hoe.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is self-confident, honest, kind, a gentleman in the streets and a freak in the sheets. Is TRULY open-minded. You cannot expect that I will always only hook up with women to please you. I am going to play, also. And be open to who with because my exploration is serious. I want to experience some things. If you feel you can't do it, you are not the ideal person. (play time requires us to both be present when with me). If you want to go play on your own, do it on your own time and tell your buddies about it. Not me.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Gangbang is my biggest fantasy.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A movie theatre, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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