I'm looking to exchange emails, chat, and connect with others who want to share something about themselves and are looking for real communication. I love stories, and love learning about other people, so tell me about yourself to spark my interest. Also open to potentially meeting a select individual or two, but only if we make a real connection online first. My husband and I are looking for friends with benefits -- emphasis on friends -- so if you just want a one-time hookup we're not for you. Note: I'm only interested in meeting bisexual men, and women who like men & are at least willing to be touched by another woman. I'm married and I always play together with my husband. I really enjoy watching him be sexual with other people, so that's a must for me. If you don't want to be intimate with both of us, I'm not interested.

My Ideal Person I think physical attraction is only a small percentage of what makes for good chemistry. Here are some of the other qualities that matter to me in a sexual partner:

- kindness and consideration for others
- honest!! (no cheaters or pretenders)
- not dominating; no alpha male (or female) energy
- gentle touch
- good sense of humor (especially about yourself)
- self aware; open to learning and growing
- enjoys kissing
- patience, able to take your time and learn what pleases other people
- intelligent, communicates well
- respectful
- gets turned on by watching as well as participating; willing to step back and hold the space for others to explore
- excited about taking direction from me, but not overly submissive or into power dynamics in the bedroom
- not into causing pain of any sort (physical or emotional)
- interested in being friends first, with additional benefits

If this describes you, feel free to email me and tell me about yourself. What are you like, what are you looking for, what turns you on, what have you learned about yourself? I won't respond to anyone who doesn't share something about themselves. And I have lots more to share in return.

My husband and I are looking for one or two playmates to add some spice to what we already have, and hope to establish an exclusive circle with them so we can play safe without the need for condoms. We're taking our time to find the right match and then the sky's the limit! Does this sound like something you'd want as well? If so, tell me about it!

Have fun!