I'm 39 years old and live in Maida Vale, London. I am currently in a relationship, with a vanilla girl, we have discussed my kinky side and she is not interested, so we reached an understanding. As long as I don't rub my nose in it and play safe, I am free to experiment as long as I don't spend all week doing it. I am aiming to use this opportunity to make some friends that I can experiment with and maybe form an occasional relationship in a poly set-up. . After the first decade of my sex life being a more dominant straight guy, I found that I love to experiment and now I switch. My drive is to provide pleasure with the person/people that I am with. When purely vanilla, this manifested itself in an eagerness, to improve my skills, particularly orally (as an ex-trumpet player, my tongue is strong and accurate), I also worked hard on learning to massage well and although I started relatively late, I was enthusiastic to learn how to use my cock well (that doesn't sound like much of a chore does it :). When I began to explore kink, I was the newbie, so wanted to be taught, this manifested itself by a desire to meet dominants who lead the way. I still enjoy being dominated either in a 1 on 1 or with more involved. I would like to try cuckolding, both as a bull and also as a cuck. My experience with couples is so far limited to Mmf where the other man was dominant and his partner submissive. This was only last year and was my first experience of bisexuality. I am keen to broaden my experience with couples (or more) and would love to meet a more couples. I am not sure if this would end up being a long term, Poly Home arrangement, but the idea is attractive to me. I am keen to potentially become the occasional boyfriend of an established couple. I also enjoy experimenting with a couple or larger group, either as a dominant, a sub telling me how to dominate their submissive. I love to submit, but often this is my masochistic nature coming out, i.e. I am showing how much I can take, whether pain, humiliation, abuse etc. Currently, my top fantasy is... I have a yearning to be "forced" to suck cock by a woman who will then straddle me and pull my cheeks apart for the other man to enter me.

My Ideal Person A sexy minded kinky couple who want to explore and experiment.