Looking for a well hung friend or play pal ;) My husband is aware and sometimes helps arrange things for me ;) Sometimes he answers messages and sometimes I do. He has in the past arranged for some one to 'just so happen bump into' me or us at a bar with out my knowledge and things have just progressed, or not progressed, naturally from there. Let me know how you prefer to initiate ? ;) We are very happy and secure in our relationship and just enjoy exploring kink part time. We have participated in full couples swap and threesomes, but more often I find a friend and one of the three situations occur; A) I play solo and he hears about it afterwards B) he helps arrange and is present and watches or hears C) he participates We tend to find these scenarios the hottest. Talk to you soon!