[COLOR darkblue][SIZE 2][B]As I have been here for awhile, I have pretty much decided these are not the kind of games I wish to play. Try as I might, my idea of finding a friend and lover is so much different than the norm. I will stay and enjoy those I talk to. I will continue to enjoy hosting the parties, but I'm sorry, I will not be a jumping post. I hope all will find what they are looking for.[/B][/SIZE][/COLOR] [B][COLOR indigo]A woman out there looking for that excitement that is missing in her life. The lack of intimacy that is important in a passionate womans life. The touch, the sight of a man.. The companionship, the laughter... Needing to be touched, held, and yes kissed.. I'm not changing my life, but I do need more. Alas, I have found this site to be a game for so many. Head trips and fantasies that many are not willing to follow through on. And so many want just a notch in the bed post. This is not me. I am real and expect those who contact me to be also. No lies, no games, no pain... And respect is the most important. I give respect and would appreciate it in return. A friend as well as a lover.. Not a quick no thought drive by. And most of all, if you say you will do something... for the love of pete, follow through. Consideration works wonders.

My Ideal Person I would like to meet a man that has respect for the women he sees. One who takes the time to consider her needs as well as his own. I'm not into quickies and like the long, slow exploration that is so inticing between two people.
I more or less am looking to find someone to have an ongoing relationship with. Of course with no strings. We are our own person and need our own space. But someone to carry on a conversation with. To enjoy the exploration, the intimacy. A bottle of wine, a quiet dinner. Or maybe a trip to somewhere. That view of the ocean as we walk. The sunset.. So much to enjoy. If you are looking for a notch on your bed post, please move on. I'm not interested in a hit and run. The selfish no thought quickie. Friends tend to make better lovers.......