I am searching for a Lover, meaning ONE, who needs some Hot, Sexy Fun on a somewhat regular basis. Someone who's looking for the same. Definitely NOT looking for a one night stand or anything more serious than "Special Friends". I'm not wanting or looking to change my home life or yours. I would just like to find what's been missing and add to that Special Someone's life at the same time. I think all of the things leading up to actually seeing each other are very exciting! Having someone's mind is soooo HOT! Sexy talk, flirting, teasing..... forplay without being able to touch. Finally being able to spend time together, after all that anticipation, would make being together incredible! Explosive!!! A little about me... I am a very sensual bbw that is cute and curvy~with my curves in all the right places. I have a full D cup, wide hips, bubble butt and a small waist. My hair is auburn & wavy. I have blue eyes, am 5'5, a young 43 and am DD Free. My life in general~ during the week I have a great job, with an Awesome company, that I really enjoy and am not willing to put in jeopardy. On the weekends, if I choose to, I work with our small business. At home, I have twin 15 year old's and two cats. I also have an older who is out on his own. I can be very driven and focused when necessary, but most of the time I am the type of per who is sweet, silly, fun, playful, sassy, optimistic and from time to time Naughty. Sometimes a little and sometimes a whole lot! You should know ahead of time that I am a Squirter. It is something that I do not have control over, nor do I want to! I love it when it happens, it's a whole different level of orgasm. It is nothing like you see on the internet. I'm also multi~orgasmic... You will get soaked! lol If Squirting is something that doesn't interest you... I'm definitely not the right per for you. I need total discretion at this time. As I am getting ready to go through a divorce. I'm hoping you can be understanding of that.

My Ideal Person I see no need, in this situation, to sugar coat or down play things. So, I'm going to put it right out there. That is just me...

I see this as a wonderful opportunity! My perfect scenario: We would both be looking for a discrete friendship and well, damn good sex I haven't talked to you yet so I'm not sure if you are looking for something more specific, but I would like to know honestly and up front if you are.

I would like to find a man who can stimulate my mind as well as my body. Someone who will make me think a little and make me laugh a lot.

I'm looking for a Confident man because I think a Confident man is just down right Sexy! Not arrogance, but Confidence!

Sexually, I want a man who likes foreplay and can make me wet just by kissing. Long and sensuous or hot and lusty ...kisses that make my body ache for more. I want intimacy and closeness without the commitment of everyday. As I stated above, I think the anticipation and excitement of our meetings would be like foreplay in itself.

I'm looking for a giving and attentive lover. A man who needs to please me as well as himself. This is the type of lover I am. It is very important to me to be able to please the man I'm with or I don't get what I need from sex. No offense intended, but very honestly, I need and want a man who has stamina or at least some pills to help in that department. There are times when I am quite insatiable.

I would also like that someone to be as comfortable being a gentle, passionate and caring lover, as he is having downright hot, feverish, nasty sex!

I will stop here and save more of this conversation for later. This is me and what I'm looking for in a nutshell. What are you looking for???

Please pay mind to the word attentive. I require it from a Lover and not just between the sheets. If I'm only going to hear from you when you want to meet... then we shouldn't take this adventure together.

A very long overdue UPDATE I am ***FINALLY*** VERY HAPPILY Split from my husband. He has had many girlfriends during our entire marriage. So, I'm not overly worried about getting caught doing anything. lol At the same time, I do not like everyone knowing my business. So discretion is still necessary on my end, to a degree. I am still searching for that same Lover... Definitely not looking for anything more than a GREAT friend at this time... If we hit it off and it turns into something different down the road, than so be it... Just not at this time!

Being here for awhile now, I'm going to add this so those of you, whom this pertains to, are not wasting your time or mine. Really, I'm not being a B*tch or conceited, I am just being Honest...

I am not a Swinger... Even though I have a couple of friends who are, I have no interest in the lifestyle. Please do not contact me if you are. Unless you're looking for a strictly platonic friend.

Please don't send me pictures or videos of you having sex with other woman. That is such a turn off!!! I check out your profile when you email me. If it is filled with these type of photo's I won't answer. Again, that is a HUGE turn off! I feel the same about Testimonials involving actual meets. They are like advertising for a used car... Very comical!

I am not into hooking up after only talking/emailing chatting/texting for a couple of hours or days. That's not me, please don't contact me if that is what your looking for.

Last but not least... Please don't try to play me or feed me a line of bull... I just got out of a really horrible marriage to a professionally labeled Sociopath. I can smell a liar or a player a mile away. I'll be honest, if you're one of these types and you contact me... I may decide to toy with you for a bit depending on my mood... but when I'm tired of the game I will be done.

I'm just a Nice Girl looking to find a Genuinely Nice Guy... One who has a similar Naughty side ...and once I find that Special Friend, I'll be deleting this profile.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Voyeurism, Fisting, Squirting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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