Hi everyone. Imagine scuba diving off of the coast of Aruba snorkeling with the reys and sea turtles reading a book on the beach with your favorite people. I can imagine This as this is a dream of mine that I would like to fulfill with that special someone. I have always been drawn to water. I have boated most of my life and traveled.   Monday through Friday I ran my own business and I also work for the government overseeing daily operations of a town and five villages. Setting up programs for the and seniors' maintenance of all buildings and Parks and so on. I really enjoyed what I did. I was able to retire at what I considered a young age 47.    I feel balance is very important in life which means it's important to me. Years ago at the end of the day to relax I used to like to hit the gym or golf or snow ski or water ski some form of activity. As I became older I realized family meant more to me and not to be so selfish and do everything that I wanted. I'll get the pleasure out of doing things that they want. Let me be clear here. I never was married and I have no of my own but I come from a very large family with plenty of nieces and nephews. So birthday parties BBQs camping trips graduations weddings became a big part of my life.I am very honest I don't beat around the bush I am loyal trustworthy Truthful considerate non judgmental especially things that we did in our past that we have been able to stride / move forward from. I listen I am calm I'm looking for a companion very similar traits I also I'm very passionate about life itself I always look for the positive in everything. I do not like rudeness nor people who attack others for no reason except to make themselves look better

My Ideal Person Someone that is exciting willing to try new things. Go down that road Less Traveled. But also likes quiet times at home. I don't like rude people. I am searching for my best friend someone I can share all my thoughts and dreams with and that they can do the same with me. In a way I'm saying I'm looking for my soulmate and hopefully I am hers. Like I said she would be my lover and my best friend and ideal i would be that I also would be hers. I want her to feel safe and secure not have to worry about anything because I will always be there to catch her if she needs it . when I love someone I am very passionate about them and considerate of their wants desires and dreams. She may not need my help but if she does she always know that I will be there for her to help or just listen. I also like people with a good heart who look for the positive in everyone instead of pointing out the negative.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Genesis Billy Joel Elton John Lady Gaga and so on

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
There are three or four women I'll tell you later maybe we
can act it out.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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