Oh I am just another one of the many women here in "The Haystack" .. I don't necessarily have expectations in relation to a place like this. I am always interested in exploring and developing connection especially the mental part. I find it personally necessary for any and all possibilities. I take my time and I am observant. If I do not respond immediately, please do not take it personally. Unfortunately, I don't have much time to read or respond to all the messages that come to the inbox.. I will literally ignore my inbox at times as well, because I find it overwhelming and those kinds of feelings are not why I pulled back the curtains here in the first place. I am interested in exploration and knowledge of myself. I am drenched in vanilla.. and I am looking to change that and cross some items off the bucket list while I am at it. I DO NOT meet up immediately so please don't ask if we just started talking/messaging. I like to explore the possible connection first and see if there is a spark and intrigue before making decisions like that. I find it necessary for anything to develop into what hopefully be unforgettable experiences.

My Ideal Person A DOMINANT GENTLEMAN. Knows what he wants.. More than familiar with women, a womans body, and what it takes and is required to push a lady over the edge (so to speak). Confident, but not cocky. At this stage of my life, I tend to be attracted to older men than myself.. no offense to younger men, but a lot of what I search for and attracts me just comes with time and experience. A man who is not selfish.. I have plenty of experience with that.. thank you but no thank you. Someone that I can build trust with, in order to feel comfortable exploring the places I have never been and pushing personal boundaries. Someone who doesn't mind holding my hand into the darkness. Patient.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I am kind of old school... so it basically just looks like
sex in public, outdoors in the wild, or the library

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage, dom/sub activities

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
I search for a connection on multiple levels

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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