Southern gentleman who still believes in traditional values. I take charge in a crisis and believe in being a protector. I love family and friends but am looking to meet a wonderful gal to kindle a relationship with. I'm a good lover and a real giver;) I'm looking for someone between 28 and 48, white or hispanic, who isn't too controlling, but also isn't afraid to tell me what I need to hear when conflict or life events come up. No drama...EVER!!! Communication is key and I am a great listener. I don't just want to sleep with someone...I want connection and trust from my lover so that this desire for one another becomes electrical. To hold her and feel my current pass into her and hers into mine. I guess I'm a hopeless romantic but if you've ever felt what I'm talking about then you know that love affects us biologically and spiritually. The merging of two into one.

My Ideal Person Beautiful, classy, doesn't mind getting sweaty, loves going out and doing things with friends. I love food and cooking is a very quick way into my heart. I want her to be independent and capable of doing some things on her own. She must know how to please herself, though I am willing to teach as long as she is completely comfortable in her own skin. If you haven't figured out how to properly double click your mouse by adulthood, what the Hell have you been doing with your time! Lastly, she must be my buddy and my confidant. Someone who makes me a better man!