My wife and I are happily married but love to play and been wanting a 3rd who is a kinky wild female preferred. My wife is shy, but I am more outgoing. We are not much into the bar scene and would rather party up in the hills or at the lake. We find it easier to party a little during our encounters as it makes getting through the awkwardness a bit quicker. I like our partners to follow my lead but also be creative and adventurous in bed. We like sex but are also interested in building friendships. In the bedroom we like traditional, straightforward sex, kinky, experimental, and other, etc…Lol. Some of our favorite positions and activities in the bedroom (who says it has to be in the bedroom) straight sex, oral, anal, porn, & mild bondage (wife is a sub). One-on-one sex does interest us much. We prefer (threesomes/swapping/orgies/other).

My Ideal Person I'm straight. I'm (not interested in exploring sex with another man.
I'm looking for someone who can be discreet because...our families live in the community as well as our grown children.😉
As far as I'm concerned, the best place to have sex is...privately.
Extramarital affairs do not interest me.
One sexual fantasy I've always had is...my wife, and girlfriend living together.
My feelings on one-night stands are…fun and no attachments.
During sex or a romantic evening, I prefer to listen to Seether, Kenny Chesney.
Sensuality - like touching and candles and massage - is as important as sex.
Foreplay is underrated. I like lots of foreplay before penetration.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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