I’m married and here without my wife’s knowledge. Although you may have heard this time and time again, my wife is not well and this has had a detrimental impact on physical intimacy. As such, I’m here to find that with someone who I hope will also become a friend, albeit a secret one.

My Ideal Person To be transparent, as I am married and not looking to disrupt my home situation or hurt people, I believe that a woman best positioned to embrace this and have similar needs for discretion, would also be married or attached. I am not against an unattached woman per se. However, I find value in that if both of us are married, there is a commonality in experience as well as alignment in needs for discretion.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
DDlg

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not particularly.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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