Update* We are standard members now so we can't respond to IM or messages. Try to kick us with same name. We are a married couple in an open relationship. We are new to this and hoping to find someone easy going. Wife is bi and on the submissive side but is shy and a little self conscious. Husband is bi curious and on the dominant side. We are not perfect and aren't expecting anyone else to be, just want people who are comfortable and drama free. We want people who are serious about meeting, we are busy and understand others are too, life comes first but we don't want to message back and forth forever either. Husband is usually online and will be considering any potential partners as wife has had some negative experiences online. Messages are preferred as the IM doesn't seem to work well, if we abruptly stop talking on there it's probably because the messages aren't going through.