BenGordon3 42 / M
"I have openmindness, but am also picky in whom I choose."
Madison, Wisconsin, United States
 
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Member Since: July 15, 2013

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BenGordon3 42/M
Madison, Wisconsin
Introduction
I am single but I don't think I am going to be using this site other than for the web cam model feature. I figure maybe this is the wrong site, I am looking for a woman to become friends with and not just a quick lay. I know sounds weird coming from a guy but I have been hurt in the past and I am now more guarded with whom I let into my life.

My Ideal Person First off, I am not looking for married.

It would be really nice to date outside my race, I get along the best with Caucasians but I am really attracted to women who look Middle Eastern or Indian (I guess I have been sort of scared to jump in and date "I guess they are called Asian but from other parts of Asia" because they are usually really smart with being attractive (physically) and I don't know about the whole religious background. I am Catholic for a long term relationship (this is funny being that this is a sex site) because I would like someone to go to Service (if/when we hit it off) with me.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, A store dressing room, A hotel room, No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really. Celebrities seem shallow. I do find Debra Messing
to be very attractive!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 42 / male
  • Madison, Wisconsin, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: September 19, 1981
Relocate?: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Single
Height: 6 ft 3 in / 190-193 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some college
Occupation: Does this matter?
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Catholic
Have Children: No
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Prefer not to say
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: Either