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analific 70 M
6  questions
How to tell a "T" from a "CD" - 3/17/2024

How can you tell a "T" from a "CD"? Is there any difference?

2 response(s), 0 votes
subforuse2024 46 M
1  question
How to become a good Sissy Slut & be an Owners Bitch - 2/19/2024

<br><br> Hi As a recent bdsm fetish kinky little thing I am discovering my new outfits makeup etc daily. Soo much fun. I want to get a nose job and breasts. Based in Oxford I am willing to relocate for anyone wholl have me. Any advice how to meet people.

1 response(s), 0 votes
Hotxhaust69 39 M
1  question
Penis Enlargement pills - 11/10/2023

I am just over 8inch in size but would like to know if there are any penis enlargement pills that work

5 response(s), 0 votes
hanson615 61 M
1  question
Best Place to go for Sex toys - 11/3/2023

New on here. What are members favorite place to go for Sex Toys? <br><br> Thx!

2 response(s), 0 votes
Pegpete 45 M
1  question
Anal orgasm advice for men - 10/22/2023

Any advice on the best positions or toys to use to achieve the best male anal orgasm. I mean when you totally blow your load without touching your cock.

1 response(s), 0 votes
G000dbuddy 36 M
2  questions
Arrange This In Order Of Importance - 9/13/2023

Arrange This In Order Of Importance <br><br> Looks Money Personality Loyalty

6 response(s), 0 votes
G000dbuddy 36 M
2  questions
What does Love mean to you? - 9/13/2023

Respect and Care Romance and Sex Attachment Attraction Magic Faith in God Something else Love has many forms. In what form do you like Love the most?...

1 response(s), 0 votes
Saphyr1000 50 T
1  question
GIFS - 9/4/2023

How do you post GIFS in the chatrooms ?

0 response(s), 1 vote
Aenghus562 67 M
1  question
Travelling and meeting - 2/13/2023

This past December I travelled to Naples Fl. for three weeks. If/when I travel somewhere for a specific length of time how do I announce it to potential partners in advance? It would be rather tedious and time consuming to send out messages/invitations one at a time.

4 response(s), 3 votes
sexygeo336 42 M
5  questions
how much better is a orgy than a ganagbang????? - 8/4/2022

Just wondering <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> how much better is an orgy over a gangbang or r they pretty much the same thing?????????

6 response(s), 6 votes
Turntoutguy 39 M
2  questions
Dealbreaker - 7/27/2022

Is crossdressing a deal breaker for a relationship with women that are bisexual as well?

5 response(s), 2 votes
Turntoutguy 39 M
2  questions
Dealbreaker - 7/27/2022

Is crossdressing a deal breaker for a relationship with women that are bisexual as well?

0 response(s), 0 votes
Nightbeacon1000 99 M
1  question
Straight guys on the DL - 7/6/2022

If you didn't think admitting to having had sex with other men would diminish your social standing at all, would you admit it publicly on a site like this, and would you still be uncomfortable about feeling like you gave up your "straightness"?

8 response(s), 3 votes
Javan091 58 M
1  question
As a BBC what was it like to get that first White Chick in the Ass ? - 5/27/2022

Any other Black man like me ? I've been with white women before, but I've never had or been with one who Loves Anal. Tell me, Bruhs; what was that first experience like ? Or White Guys with Black Women ? I've had experiences with Black Women who Loved or were willing to do Anal. The Tightness around my "D" felt unbelievable, it was Wonderful !!! And the way she Hump Feed me ...

5 response(s), 5 votes
First time - 3/1/2022

I want to experience having sex with tgirls or shemales It be my first time what should I do.

8 response(s), 3 votes
CarolynCrups 64 F
1  question
Why would you think? - 3/1/2022

I wax my mound and keep her clean. I do my best each day to look and smell nice. I take the time not only for myself but for others that are around me. So. Why would you think that I would like to have some hairy faced male between my legs licking my mound? I mean I got rid of the hair that was there. It has been said that a male uses the hair on his face as a mask to hide behind. So far, I ...

8 response(s), 14 votes
i69withyou 70 M
1  question
How do you handle a gal that won't let herself cum? - 2/23/2022

I have a girl friend that always stops before she will let herself cum! She claims even when she plays by herself, she stops before she climaxes! Try as I may, no matter what I do I cannot convince her to let go and allow herself to climax. It doesn't matter if I'm fingering her, eating her, using toys, or fucking her. She always stops before cumming! Anyone have any ideas on how to get ...

26 response(s), 2 votes
maynardcpl 61 C
1  question
how to let transwomen now you aren't chasers - 2/22/2022

my wife and i are have had trans friends and we really enjoy their company and friendship but it seems that it is almost impossible to talk to them if you are a couple. we don't consider them a fetish, it's not just about sex, but the sex when it happens is great, we won't lie.

15 response(s), 12 votes
Lipstick that stays while cocksucking? - 2/22/2022

i have just recently started my crossdressing journey and im loving it! but i have one burning question about lipstick. i see videos of women sucking cock and their lipstick doesnt wear off. what type of lipstick is this??

13 response(s), 8 votes
stumps0 62 M
1  question
standart people - 12/28/2021

iam sending out a lot but getting nothing back, found out a lady cant read it, so how does one add standart to a account

26 response(s), 13 votes
BiSussi 62 F
12  questions
Xmas Gifts - 12/4/2021

Do you know already what you buy for your husband, boyfriend/s or lover/s? <br><br> Somewhat lost this year ;( what would you suggest for guys in their early twenties? <br><br> Not a believer in gift cards, just hope you have some unique gift ideas <br><br> Please do help, as I want to surprise my loved guys!

21 response(s), 11 votes
andyapple2 40 M
1  question
Bicurious - 9/27/2021

Guys, how did u tell ur gf, wife, significant other about wanting to play with another man? Did they get mad or accept it? Ladies how do u feel about ur man playing with other men?

47 response(s), 32 votes
BiSussi 62 F
12  questions
How do you change men? - 9/6/2021

Men have this illusion that women who like to frequent nude beaches or swim in the pool without a bikini are looking for sex? How do you bring men back into reality and convince them that caring, tenderness, special connection and love leads to making love? Nudity has nothing to do with sex, it is just how God made us ...

49 response(s), 20 votes
NUDEMAN693 69 M
2  questions
Men Wearing Panties - 8/31/2021

How many men and women find it attractive a man in women panties? How many women would be upset if boyfriend or husband wore panties?

67 response(s), 29 votes
Camfriendly22 31 M
1  question
Male showers - 7/21/2021

Do females actually enjoy and get aroused watching a man please himself in the shower? O us it just weird?

28 response(s), 10 votes
BiSussi 62 F
12  questions
Sharing Your Partner - 6/9/2021

Some couples build their relationships on loyalty and exclusivity. Do you believe sharing your partner, female or male, enriches a relationship and does using a condom or not changes the situation? I am not talking about a FWB or SEX relationship, but a relationship based on love!

50 response(s), 40 votes
Sizzle - 6/9/2021

Do you prefer a person clothed in there profile pic or nude? Which brings you more sizzle?

14 response(s), 5 votes
5058068oneone8 37 F
1  question
Seek true love - 6/8/2021

I would like to ask why most men are not serious and both men and female doesn’t trust themselves

7 response(s), 10 votes
bluedam53 70 M
2  questions
Truck Stop[s along I-95 - 5/8/2021

Taking a road trip up and down I-95 this summer. How can I find what stops are the best to score at. What is or is there some sort of equitette

28 response(s), 28 votes
bluedam53 70 M
2  questions
Truck Stop[s along I-95 - 5/8/2021

Taking a road trip up and down I-95 this summer. How can I find what stops are the best to score at. What is or is there some sort of equitette

2 response(s), 7 votes