sexylund119 38 M
9  Articles
no thanks   4/1/2017

when u say o any one for some of work u r happy


0 Comments, 13 Views, 3 Votes
Rejection nicely   3/11/2017

Have never suffered with too much ill feeling over being rejected, although do how the arrogance of how some deliver it. Currently if I want to tell someone they are not my type, I have found that it softens it or puts it into perspective to say that they are simply not my 'flavour'. Wondering if that sounds crass? but it seems to make sense to me. Sound like Volvo's some like Porches, some like ...


4 Comments, 40 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
Alovertolove8888 36 M
2  Articles
Have you?   3/1/2017

Have you ever showed up for a "meet and greet" that was suppose to lead to sex, but the person on the other end was not who/what they appeared to be online?

This happened to me and I could not figure out a way to say "no thanks, this isn't going any further than coffee" without making it very awkward....

Any advice?


3 Comments, 57 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
izzynshe 68 C
1  Article
Manners   1/23/2017

We recently became members to this site... We have gotten several flirts, emails, and our profile has been viewed by many. We have been busy checking out profiles that fit what we are looking for and I must say we enjoy and are having fun already.. However there are a couple of single men that have commented and sent us emails and we have found that even though we didnt request single men they ...


7 Comments, 142 Views, 16 Votes ,4.89 Score
msusoccer 43 M
1  Article
emailing   1/15/2017

Why does it seem like on this site women are significantly more interested in just ignoring emails rather than saying no thanks. I get the emails that are short, 3 or 4 words, but when a guy takes the time to compose a thoughtful email, shouldn't that at least deserve some kind of response? What happened to common decency?


10 Comments, 77 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
tght14u03 50 M
5  Articles
Meeting up   12/21/2016

I'm beginning to think everyone is pic collectors. No one wants to meet without pictures. Remember when we didn't have the internet and we met for drinks. I have never had a problem meeting in person and either you are into them and great or one of you is not into the other and gi your separate ways. We're all adults. Once someone has had their identity stolen, fake profiles made and see how hard ...


3 Comments, 53 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
KYrod1991 32 M
2  Articles
No means no   12/1/2016

No means no damnit 😉


9 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
Photo/Icon (optional)   11/21/2016

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2 Comments, 8 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
ussion topics are for original mat   11/21/2016

ussion topics are for original material written by members. Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site. Also, please observe the HornyWife Terms of Use. If you see material that is inappropriate for HornyWife, or that may have been publish


1 Comments, 11 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
Is being crazy contagious? - There is always a price you must pay!   11/16/2016

While riding the train downtown last evening (yes we now have light rail trains in and around Los Angeles) to the Lakers / Brooklyn Nets game(at Staples Center) my phone blew up (figuratively not literally) with texts from not one but two former booty calls. What was strange is both of the booty calls have from time to time tried to reconnect with me a time or two in the past. I have ...


4 Comments, 144 Views, 27 Votes ,5.45 Score
sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
SexCapades ..Sex Tourism .... Sex vacations..are they worth it?   11/1/2016

SexCapades ..Sex Tourism .... Sex vacations..are they worth it? A few days ago, at the Lakers home game / season opener, I ran in to a good friend and an acquaintance I've know since high school. It was nice to see them and talk to them at the game and catch up since we don't talk on a regular basis, except at a gathering, social event or party once or twice every year. They were both in ...


3 Comments, 92 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
Inheatat46 57 F
4  Articles
This Member "djhits20072 " Male 55yr Old Harassing Me   10/30/2016

This guy seemed nice in beginning conversation. We only conversated on the phone. After awhile, he began having notions that I would video us and put it on this site. If you go to his profile you will see that he is definitely not the type of male you guys would want to see in a video with me. Anyway, he kept talking about us being videoed. He began going over and over again about being videoed ...


0 Comments, 58 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
SAY NO THANKS AND RUN WHEN...   10/15/2016

Hi my fellow BlackSexMatch.com brother and sisters,

I want to offer some friendly advice, not only to men but to women too. Please beware of the little foxes and wolves on this site who are on here targeting us innocent people on here just trying to have fun and meet great people.

We have to remember that some people are on here with BAD and DESTRUCTIVE motives. Be sure to keep ...


4 Comments, 82 Views, 19 Votes ,7.08 Score
Saying No   10/3/2016

It seems allot of people like to say no and sometimes they shouldn.ty


1 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Sffungentleman 53 M
1  Article
What is the code phrase for saying no?   9/19/2016

I have met two different couples in the recent past and during our initial meet they were both very excited and said they wanted to hook up and have fun. A few days later, they said "we are really busy right now". Now this isn't my first rodeo and it just seemed a bit odd that they were suddenly too busy to connect up. I presume this is swinger code for "no thanks". Can anyone verify this? I ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Crying through the whole first date? No.   9/17/2016

Take it from me, if you are going to cry for the whole first date, you're not going to get a second one. It happened to me. I met a lady, and she balled for the whole hour long date. I'm a kind person, so i tried to reassure her and I didn't run away. But, needless to say, she was in no place to be dating. She really needed to work some things out. I get it, it can be really lonely when you ...


1 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
notbender2 52 M
4  Articles
Is it rude to say "No Thanks"?   9/16/2016

I think we all need to learn when to say it and when to hear it without comment. Let's bring back "no, thank you" and follow it with a full stop.

In this world of over-sharing, it can be tough to stop at "no, thank you." It feels awkward, but you will get used to it.

You are not being rude by saying "no, thank you." Anyone who refuses to accept it is being rude by questioning ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
being polite   9/12/2016

we are all here pretty much here for the same reason...

this doesn't mean that one should insult or be impolite to each other... the way I see it - there is either attraction or not - if not - say no, no thanks or not my type...

I understand that this refers mainly to responses from women to men BUT some men also need to accept a NO and not further bother the ladies on this ...


1 Comments, 14 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
jrhammer44224 42 M
2  Articles
Personal Preference versus Racism   8/30/2016

I'm all about equality in life, every human being has a fundamental right to try to make a living and find happiness. I may not like some aspects of how a given group of people approach their ethical practices towards others, but it is behavior that transcends race and creed.

That being said, I was recently approached on another site by a woman. Nice, similar cultural interests, ...


3 Comments, 43 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Secretsforus2015 42 M
5  Articles
The Best Ways to Say No!   8/30/2016

So I am always curious what a woman on here believes is the "best way" to say no to someone she is not interested in.

I know a fair number have decided not responding is a solid route to get men to stop messaging them. At least eventually.

Women, what have you found is the best way to let a man know "I am not interested' but at the same time get a man to stop messaging you over ...


5 Comments, 29 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
Tea compared to sex   8/26/2016

If somebody offers you tea or coffee- and you say yes- that does not necessarily mean that you Will have tea every time you are together with this person.

The same goes with sex.


1 Comments, 7 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
RhymesWithSassy 45 T
3  Articles
SENSITIVE EGOS   8/25/2016

Some people just don't take "no thanks" very well. If someone gets on your nerves...

My advice:

When it comes to blocking memebers, don't forget to be on the FULL site (go through My Account, Blocked Members) so that you can check ALL the boxes to block them from seeing your profile (which contains multiple vulnerabilities). Just blocking someone on the MOBILE site only ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
morningstretcher 49 M
1  Article
Fake Profile Pics   8/15/2016

Don't you dislike it when the person you're chatting or planning on seeing is really lying about themselves. Why? Just be real.


2 Comments, 22 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
nerdygirl721 34 F
2  Articles
Sorry, Ill have to decline   8/15/2016

I have no problem responding back, even if I dont want a meet and greet. But sometimes I may want to still talk. So many guys on here are so focus on the meet and greet that they miss out on other opportunities. Like phone sex, I would be open to that or playing sex games on the IM. Not everytime you message a girl will lead to an physical encounter, but at least there is still fun to be had.


2 Comments, 43 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
ohmamma1 31 M
2  Articles
what happened?   8/7/2016

you know it really bites when you're trying to just say hello on the IM and people don't respond. Id much rather hear not interested than wonder if my IM isn't working. then it's me sitting there wasting my time and points trying to get a message through to the person and not understanding why this isn't working?


1 Comments, 21 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
Averageguy4154 30 M
2  Articles
What a great idea   7/27/2016

It would be amazing if people could just say no thanks. Makes denial easier, and less wondering on both sides.


3 Comments, 29 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
mandy4you2use 71 F
6  Articles
i wanted to but?   7/22/2016

after letting the very have me one of them rang my phone at 9 pm a few nights later and ask to come to my home, I was unsure as to tell him where I lived but as I was feeling randy I gave him my address, I raced to shower before he arrived as I wanted to be nice and fresh for what I hoped would come, when the bell rang I couldn't wait to open the door even though I was naked as I pulled it open ...


8 Comments, 596 Views, 41 Votes ,6.69 Score
Ok   7/20/2016

How come this concept is so hard for people to follow? I understand when you have to many messages to actually follow but I am sure not every woman is flooded with messages. How hard would it be to say no thanks?


2 Comments, 12 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Lostinhorn 34 M
2  Articles
How to say no thanks   7/13/2016

Just say no thanks, don't be rude and not answer. Simply say I'm not interested but thanks for the offer, or something like that. Remember they are people too.


4 Comments, 23 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
Lostinhorn 34 M
2  Articles
How to say no thanks   7/13/2016

Just say no thanks, don't be rude and not answer. Simply say I'm not interested but thanks for the offer, or something like that. Remember they are people too.


1 Comments, 10 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score