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What kind of approach do you prefer in a kiss?
"Kiss-storic or Kiss-erable?"
She hinted at me kissing her. I haven't really had that much experience, but I know that a good kiss can send cold-chills and tingles through a person's body if it is done right and with the right intention behind it. Feeling it out. Slow and soft. I felt like she wanted me to, but it is always best to ask, at least in my approach. So I did. I asked her. May I kiss you? She said, "I have never been asked before." She said, "Usually a man will just impose and then shove his tongue down my throat." "It digusts me," she said. She said,"I was wanting you to, but I am surprised that you asked." "I have never had anyone ask me if they could kiss me." She said, "That is adorable." Interesting........She adored the method and the miniscule question as though I had given her an expensive gift...
HHmmmmm......The unwritten words to her were engulfed in the issues of respect, honor, passion, and permission which I concluded were basic human needs for all of us. It was a "kiss-storical occasion" for both of us as we leaned into each other again and again and felt the wonderful freedom and excitement of "mutuality."
Kind of got me thinking. Is that first kiss historic or heinous? Was it momentous and memorable or miserable and malicious?
A kiss is a very intimate act. It is by definition and biologically known as osculation. Sorta takes the steam out of the moment when you put it that way.......lol.....Nevertheless, a kiss by any other name is still a kiss. It is a moment where silent communication occurs and ripples through the body as a wave over the soft sand of a warm beach. It creates a warmth on a lot of levels and in a lot of places when it is mutual, masterful, and meaningful.
I have to tell you. The kiss was soft, sensual, tender, and simple. In fact, she said, "That was good, but it was too short." It was just what anyone would want to hear. She invited me back for another. Do you understand??????........She "invited me" BACK..........Now, what do you think about that? Those words were like a concerto to my ears and the greatest compliment she could have delivered. Several more kisses followed and it was "kiss-storic" (memorable, magical) not "kiss-erable" (miserable and malevolent).......
You see, the kiss is the moment where much of the chemistry and connection are established. Sure, deeper conversations need to occur and commonalities need to connect, but gosh that kiss is really something. It can be the most magnificent, memorable moment or an intrusive insult. It can be "kiss-toric" linking itself to heart and life or "kiss-erable" stealing the very best of a tender moment...So, you tell me...."Kiss-toric or Kiss-erable????"...I would prefer to be a part of "kiss-story." |
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Sounds like you collected MAJOR points by asking! . I've never done the tongue-down-the-throat thing on the first kiss...in fact, I don't do that by choice ever (only if I know she likes and wants it; it doesn't do a thing for ME)...but there's a point where you just KNOW that she wants your lips to touch, and if it's the first time with her, it can be truly electric. .
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Its always good to make sure, at least on the first kiss. | |||
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*sighs and smiles...sometimes not making assumptions is a sign of a truly romantic heart.  
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nice initial post JW Associate Moderator of Younger Women for Older Menand standards can contact me here, justwannahav1950 | |||
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I once had an older lady approach me in a bar (I was 22, she was 30 something). As we talked, she grabbed my face with both hands and started to kiss me, but the initial arousal factor was quickly extinguished by the fact that she was trying to suck my lings out. . I had to forcibly push her away at which point she stormed off muttering several expletives. I was in shock to say the least. A friend of mine walked over and said 'I see you met Ms. Hoover'. I didin't think it was funny at the time. | |||
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Kissing is wonderful! To be allowed to bestow a warm kiss on a lovely woman's lips...aahhhhh, I'm in heaven. I love kissing! |
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