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Fellatio Friday
Posted:Jan 7, 2022 9:15 am
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2022 6:04 pm
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With lips wrapped tight around my shaft
With subtle moves I groaned and gasped
And when my cock, her hand gripped
Into her throat my engorged head slipped
With little gag and choke I felt
All muscles in my body melt
But she withdrew before I came
And took me in her hands again
This time she pulled me up and down
And with her tongue she flicked the crown
Again, into her mouth I slipped
And down her chin saliva dripped
This time she nodded hard and fast
And once again I had to gasp
Just one more movement brought me close
Around the base she gripped the growth
And suddenly with force sprung to
Her mouth a shower of my cum
And I lay panting-smiling on my back
And swallowing every drop
With pointed finger on her lip
She tasted some escaping drips
And smiled as she lay at my side
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Happy New Year
Posted:Dec 31, 2021 7:55 am
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2022 11:14 am
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Happy New Year 2022 everyone.
No poem today, just wishing everyone a healthy, safe New Year celebration sans hugging and kissing~~

May the New Year 2022 bring us back to the old normal....although many things about the COVID-19 pandemic will remain because the global population vaccination rates are very low...

.....so here is to a new normal where we in developed countries can go about living our lives ...perhaps with masks and vaccination cards...... nonetheless, we learn to live with COVID, who knows?

And a shout out to all those that work in health care who are emotional and physically exhausted and probably suffering from PTSD. May the year 2022 bring healing.

Here's a toast to all members of BlackSexMatch.com; may the year 2022 bring tantalizing experiences via this virtual medium.

Cheers !
V
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Merry Christmas Everyone
Posted:Dec 23, 2021 9:35 am
Last Updated:Dec 27, 2021 9:01 am
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Merry Christmas, everyone! Truly, Christmas is a lyrical holiday. Regardless of faith, Christmas is a special celebration that is experienced through the stories told from days past and hopes strung together for the future. Whether it be through verses of faith, Christmas carols, or written prose, there's no better way to celebrate the beauty of today than with some classic Christmas poetry.

"Little Tree" by e.e. cummings

little tree
little silent Christmas tree
you are so little
you are more like a flower
who found you in the green forest
and were you very sorry to come away?
see i will comfort you
because you smell so sweetly
i will kiss your cool bark
and hug you safe and tight
just as your mother would,
only don't be afraid
look the spangles
that sleep all the year in a dark box
dreaming of being taken out and allowed to shine,
the balls the chains red and gold the fluffy threads,
put up your little arms
and i'll give them all to you to hold
every finger shall have its ring
and there won't be a single place dark or unhappy.

"Twas the Night Before Christmas" by Clement C. Moore

And then, in a twinkling, I heard on the roof
The prancing and pawing of each little hoof.
As I drew in my head, and was turning around,
Down the chimney St. Nicholas came with a bound.

He was dressed all in fur, from his head to his foot,
And his clothes were all tarnished with ashes and soot.
A bundle of Toys he had flung on his back,
And he looked like a peddler, just opening his pack.

His eyes-how they twinkled! his dimples how merry!
His cheeks were like roses, his nose like a cherry!
His droll little mouth was drawn up like a bow,
And the beard of his chin was as white as the snow.

"O Holy Night" by John Sullivan Dwight

O holy night! The stars are brightly shining,
It is the night of our dear Saviour's birth.
Long lay the world in sin and error pining,
'Til He appear'd and the soul felt its worth.
A thrill of hope, the weary world rejoices,
For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn.

Fall on your knees! O hear the angel voices!
O night divine, O night when Christ was born;
O night divine, O night, O night Divine

"How the Grinch Stole Christmas" by Dr Seuss

So he paused. And the Grinch put his hand to his ear.
And he did hear a sound rising over the snow.
It started in low. Then it started to grow.
But the sound wasn't sad! Why, this sound sounded merry!
It couldn't be so! But it WAS merry! VERY!
He stared down at Whoville! The Grinch popped his eyes!
Then he shook! What he saw was a shocking surprise!
Every Who down in Whoville, the tall and the small,
Was singing! Without any presents at all!
He HADN'T stopped Christmas from coming! IT CAME!
Somehow or other, it came just the same!
And the Grinch, with his grinch-feet ice-cold in the snow,
Stood puzzling and puzzling: "How could it be so?"
"It came with out ribbons! It came without tags!"
"It came without packages, boxes or bags!"
And he puzzled three hours, till his puzzler was sore.
Then the Grinch thought of something he hadn't before!
"Maybe Christmas," he thought, "doesn't come from a store."
"Maybe Christmas...perhaps...means a little bit more
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Better than milk & cookies
Posted:Dec 21, 2021 7:04 am
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2021 11:18 am
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Santa is so naughty
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Thanksgiving Reflections
Posted:Nov 22, 2021 7:08 am
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2021 12:09 pm
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In a world filled with excuses and widespread unwillingness accept personal responsibility, I often reflect how I can be part of the solution rather than part of the problem. Sipping on my southern Old Fashioned, I realize that if we expect things change in the world and make it a better place, it is imperative we accept responsibility for our own choices and our own actions.

What I realized missing in my self-observation is judgmentalism. Every day, how much of our day is dedicated working improve ourselves when compared how much of our day is spent judging others for who we perceive them be?

Just as with the homeless on the streets in your community, things are most often not what we think them be. We are quick judge others, assume, immediately form our own opinions, eventually adopting them as fact.

We fail take the time research facts, we fail truly get know others, and we fail show compassion and understanding. We are quick reject others in hopes of justifying our own personal biases.

We have a story. Life is series of hundreds of choices every day and our lives are an accumulation of these choices. We all have stuff and the choices we make can be enormously clouded by numerous circumstances others cannot possibly understand. These circumstances can have a massive impact on our ability or inability to choose wisely.

As we move into a season of Thanksgiving, let us all make a commitment to refrain from judging. Instead, show compassion, kindness and understanding. Give others a break and let us put our selfish tendencies aside. Help someone. Be a blessing to someone. Provide encouragement to someone. You just might be the difference they need.
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Private Dancer
Posted:Nov 21, 2021 7:03 am
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2021 5:30 am
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A tribute Tina Turner - inducted into the 2021 Rock & Roll Hall of Fame as an individual artist ....amazing to realize that Tiny is 80 years old....

Well, the men come in these places
And the men are all the same
You don't look at their faces
And you don't ask their names
You don't think of them as human
You don't think of them at all
You keep your mind on the money
Keeping your eyes on the wall

I'm your private dancer
A dancer for money
I'll do what you want me to do
I'm your private dancer
A dancer for money
And any old music will do
.."Private Dancer"
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Zoom
Posted:Nov 14, 2021 1:08 pm
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2021 11:08 am
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Zoom me closer
Zoom me between your thighs
Your PowerPoint distraction
Moans muted
Zoom me closer
Your Zoom fantasy
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Happy Halloween
Posted:Oct 31, 2021 9:03 am
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2021 1:17 pm
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You see a shadow by the tree
Knowing you are being watched
Standing in your room
Removing your sexy waitress costume
I enter through the open window
Approach you from behind, swiftly and firmly
You let out a gasp, my hand going up your thigh
Even though scared, you just moan
You can smell my breath and sweat
My hand grabs your breasts,
As my finger slides inside your wetness
I rip off your panties and top
And you dare not say stop
You lay there breasts bare and legs wide
With me thrusting deep inside
You gaze into my eyes as our hips rock
Your lover, your zombie
You screamed in delight
On yet another Halloween
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Pumpkin Spice
Posted:Oct 15, 2021 8:11 am
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2021 3:08 pm
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It's Autumn across much of the USA; even in Vegas the temps have cooled into the 80's and the Bellagio Conservatory has the Autumn theme on display. Which brings to mind the flavor of pumpkin spice.

A pumpkin spice personal lubricant would accent the sexual mood that Autumn brings, especially for swingers, I would think. Rather than creampie, perhaps the erotic experience will be pumpkin pie? And with all pumpkin pie, whipped cream tops off the delight .

I've read that pumpkin spice condoms were introduced. However, I haven't seen any and I would think what a waste of flavor unless you are with an that requires condoms for oral ...

Just random thoughts this frisky Friday .. may you enjoy pumpkin spice this Autumn... whether traditional or kinky~~ it's all filling and good

Cheers!
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Stealthing
Posted:Oct 9, 2021 7:36 am
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2021 3:30 pm
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It is about time!! All states should pass a law like this!! Too many women and gay men fall victims to this immoral practice ...... and especially women that live in Texas .... there is no recourse (although the law is suspended at this time by a Federal judge) if the "escaped seed" finds the "egg". Tragic consequences.

California just became the first state in the U.S. to outlaw "stealthing," a slang term for the nonconsensual removal of a condom during sex.

The law, signed by Gov. Gavin Newsom on Thursday, makes it a civil offense under state law for someone to remove a condom without their partner's consent.

"For a majority of the people, it's like, 'Yeah, it makes sense that this is immoral and it should be illegal,' " state Assembly member Cristina Garcia, who sponsored the legislation, told NPR.

"A lot of people told me, 'I can't believe it's not already illegal,' " she added.

The California State Legislature had approved the measure without opposition.
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Unrequited Infatuations
Posted:Oct 4, 2021 9:10 am
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2021 8:38 am
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I recently became aware of a creative term "unrequited infatuations", the title of a memoir by Stevie Van Zandt (E-Street Band member). We have all known unrequited love at some point in our lives, but unrequited infatuations caused me to think about the connections made on BlackSexMatch.com.

It is common on this site for connections to become very intimate, creating a fantasy of something almost "real". Words expressed in writing or verbally and enhanced by visuals are powerful. The "fantasy" usually fades because there is no "syntax" - the touch, the physical interaction- to create the narrative of a relationship.

Then there are those "unrequited infatuations - desiring someone who does not return those feelings or pining for someone that isn't available.

Just my observations in chat rooms during my too many years on this site I have seen many BlackSexMatch.com members experiencing "unrequited infatuations" as they are typically very pubic with their angst.

I also wonder if people that pay for live model private webcams somewhat are experiencing "unrequited infatuations", hoping that more money spent in private cams will somehow result is something "real". Hate to inform them, but live models on webcam are purely a business model, where the models derive income from the private cams. The better they are at feeding the infatuation of the viewer, the more money they make.

Btw, the book "Unrequited Infatuations: A Memoir" is an excellent read if you like to read about rock & roll.

Just thoughts for the day.
Cheers!
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COVID-19 and our sex lives
Posted:Sep 27, 2021 8:45 am
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2021 8:21 am
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An interesting perspective on COVID-19 and impact on sexual activity and desire. I know that my desire to "meet-up" has waned the past 18 months -- when the odds of ventilator or physical sex are weighed... I lean toward masturbation... however, now I just ask to see their vaccination card ~~ and we will see how things go. LOL

Source: The Guardian (a UK publication)
Have we really stopped having sex?
Every decade since 1990, the UK has carried out a detailed National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles (Natsal). In 2020-21 it was replaced by the smaller Natsal-Covid study, which painted a complicated picture: of those in cohabiting relationships, 78% saw a change in their sex life, usually for the worse. One in 10 reported sexual difficulties that started or worsened in lockdown. Even though 63% reported some sexual activity, 75% of those who did were in a cohabiting relationship. Times have inevitably been even leaner for couples who weren’t living together. As for people who weren’t in a relationship, the lockdown months were a catastrophe: only one in 30 women and one in 10 men had a new sexual partner.

Has social distancing atrophied desire for intimacy?
There’s a subtle but gigantic mental barrier to cross in going from two metres to zero millimetres apart. “People are not necessarily scared of Covid, says Nutland (London School of Hygiene & Tropical Medicine). “They’ve just forgotten how to be close. This doesn’t always have a sexual dimension many people describe anxieties about everyday proximity and crowded spaces. We’ve lost those social and sexual skills, he adds, though they’ll come back with a bit of time.

Have lockdowns shaken our body confidence?
Nearly half of us 48% put on weight in lockdown, and 29% said they drank more. But that interacted with more nebulous feelings of pessimism and low self-esteem that come with too much time indoors. Jenny Keane, a sex educator who was running an online orgasm workshop when the pandemic broke out, says feedback she was getting “centred on low libido, lack of desire and low self-esteem, which are in a vicious circle. So she tailored a course on “body confidence and sexual self-care.

Does long Covid kill your mojo?
Eleanor Draeger, a sexual health and HIV doctor, counsels against too much extrapolation. People with all sorts of physical disabilities have sex, and long Covid is a physical disability. They may not be having hanging-from-the-chandelier sex, but they can still have sex. However, she agrees that if low libido is a symptom, it will be pretty decisive.

Have we become obsessed with hygiene?
Sanitized sex is a contradiction in terms. It isn’t reasonable or possible to be intimate with someone while maintaining germ barriers. After 18 months of trying to keep ourselves physically separate, it is quite hard to stop seeing closeness as a threat. Draeger (a sexual health and HIV doctor) has seen this play out vividly in her clinical work, to the point where an STI diagnosis that wouldn’t normally have caused a huge amount of angst has had a hugely damaging effect. People have told me having an STI felt really stressful in the context of Covid,” she says. They just felt that everything was unclean.

Also, where is everyone?
Dating apps, brutal at the best of times, are a bit quiet. Anya says: When the pandemic started, I was 36. Now I’m 38. Part of me does worry that men are looking for women whose fertility isn’t going to be an issue.” And where do you meet people, if you’ve had enough of app dating? After-work drinks, bars and festivals have all either disappeared or are operating under new limits that squash flirting opportunities.

Why haven’t we gone back to normal now?
Sex is about connection, and the pandemic has been about disconnection physical and emotional: at some time or another, we’ve all been in fight-or-flight mode, which is about as disconnected as life gets. Keane (a sex educator who was running an online orgasm workshop) believes there is a way back, if we understand better how our state of being affects our interest in sex. Whatever the problem, everybody’s question is always: ‘Am I broken?’ When so many of us carry shame about bodily functions and confusion about sex, good quality, sex-positive education is key. You can change your entire relationship with yourself just by changing the understanding of your body. My answer is always the same. ‘No, you are not broken.’”
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