voyeur2017 59M  
247 posts
6/26/2021 7:29 am

I discovered this term several years ago and always have been intrigued by it's meaning. If fact, after deep and meditative thought, I have realized that perhaps I am a sapiosexual. To define Sapiosexuality: means that a person is sexually attracted to highly intelligent people, so much so that they consider it to be the most important trait in a partner.

Intelligence and a sharp wit have always been attractive traits I seek. The combination leads to a very intense and satisfying intimate connection; uninhibited, raw, yet refined.

This doesn't mean I have librarian fantasies; I've never found the Dewey decimal system very sexually liberating. Now, I do enjoy a well choregraphed topless (or nude) Vegas club show and viewing women member cams on this site can be very arousing.

Sapiosexuality and raw sexual attraction and lust are not mutually exclusive.

The yin and yang of sexuality.


PeekingIn1972 49F
44 posts
12/29/2021 9:55 pm

As a former English teacher who had a reading library in my classes, the Dewey decimal system is highly arousing in its organization using both subject a-n-d numbers. *grin*

author51 59F  
130010 posts
6/27/2021 12:02 am

Hello my fellow Sapiosexual. Like you I am highly attracted to the mind along with the personality. Those are the first qualities about anyone that attract me the most to another....xoxo

RavenGB 61M
1430 posts
6/26/2021 4:11 pm

I think we tend to be attracted to similar people. Consequently, if you are highly educated, you are likely to find such a partner, an equal, to be very attractive. I am not sure if the term applies to somebody who is attracted to somebody much brighter than they are or not. It does seem to be a term that has recently come to prominence.

Tmptrzz 59F  
107038 posts
6/26/2021 9:51 am

I can totally see that about you my friend, as an intelligent mind is very sexy I couldn't agree more. I hope you enjoy a sexy fun filled weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..

13129 posts
6/26/2021 8:44 am

m m m m m mmmmmm .. librarians .. soon to be extinct in the digital self-serve info world of today

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