INTERNATIONAL FETISH DAY  

spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
29851 posts
1/21/2022 10:19 am
INTERNATIONAL FETISH DAY



Today is International Fetish Day.

A fetish is a sexual desire linked to an inanimate object or a part of the body not normally associated with sex. With this definition, sex with a vibrator is a fetish because a vibrator is an object. Spanking is often regarded as a fetish yet, if done by hand, involves no object. It seems that what is regarded as a fetish is largely determined by the norms of society.

I have just come across an unusual fetish. It is called melissophilia, a sexual attraction to bees. Some people, mainly men, get off by getting bees to sting their genitalia; some men stick their cocks in a shook-up jar of angry bees. The bee stings lead to the swelling of the genitalia, the increasing of their sensitivity, and the prolonging and intensifying of orgasm. That is the upside; the downside is that the bees die!

But is melissophilia a fetish? No object is involved and no parts of the body not normally associated with sex are involved?

How do you define a fetish?
Do you have any fetishes? If so, what are your fetishes?


I have a few fetishes. I love wearing mesh underwear - I prefer to say mesh rather than fishnet; I love having my balls licked and sucked with an ice cube; I love bondage, especially with Japanese bondage rope; I love ball weights being used on me; and I love spanking, both giving and receiving.



spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
1/21/2022 10:20 am

Over the last week, I have not able been able to enter the dark side. I want to familiarise myself with the new format before the switch is made. But alas I cannot prepare myself for the dark side!
Given that what is posted in the dark side does not appear here on the light side, there are now two bloglands! Blogland was already quiet now with two bloglands, things have got even quieter.


author51 59F  
130010 posts
1/21/2022 12:46 pm

Those with a bee fetish have way more than a bee in their bonnet..Good Bloody God. No wonder bees have been disappearing. I guess they do not realize just how important bees are for the earths survival.They only care about getting off. Some sick fetishes in this world and for me that is one of them..GROSS!!!!!!

I post on both sides myself. Usually here first as it ends up migrating over about 5-10 minutes later in the New Community. I have posted one or two on the dark side first, yet it is indeed quiet over there than compared to here.
I do have new readers there that I do not have here though and when I go through the members list over there now, there are new ones added every day. I am quite enjoying it on the Dark Side my friend.. xoxo


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
1/21/2022 12:55 pm

I'll suggest the obvious.
Log out of A F F
Close all open links and web pages.
Clear youR Cache and History.
Try again, with a clean slate.
Or follow me, that's where I was about to go.

Fetish?
I used to think that if I stroked that tiny Buddha at that corner store nearby - it would bring me good luck. 🍀
Luck has nothing to do with it, I should have chosen winning numbers.
Ugh... pick a digit from one to forty-nine. 😶


citizen4722 64M  
74582 posts
1/21/2022 1:28 pm

I do enjoy my nips being sucked and played with. Fetishooo!


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
1/21/2022 1:28 pm

I can do everything there using my laptop except post. I have to use my cellphone 📱 to do that .
Fetish? I used to pet a Buddha buying my lottery tickets 🎫. He was useless so now I just buy quick picks.


Tmptrzz 59F  
107038 posts
1/21/2022 1:41 pm

Happy Fetish Day indeed, you have some arousing fetishes there my friend..

How do you define a fetish? Nope

Do you have any fetishes? If so, what are your fetishes? Can't think of anything

I hope your Friday is treating you well..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


smartasswoman 64F  
35813 posts
1/21/2022 1:58 pm

I make a bit of a distinction. If the object or body part is REQUIRED for arousal it's a fetish. Like if a guy can't come unless he's rubbing his penis on your foot, he has a foot fetish.

If it's more along the lines of a fun enhancement, I would call it a kink.

If someone has a fetish (or a strong kink) at least you know the foolproof way to turn them on! It's kind of like being in possession of a magic key.


CleavageFan4U 65M  
69374 posts
1/21/2022 3:06 pm

How do you define a fetish? - As we become more open and accepting, the list of fetishes gets shorter and shorter. For me personally, your CBT is not really a fetish, but the bees thing sure is!

Do you have any fetishes? If so, what are your fetishes? - The stuff I like (big bewbies, a bit of B+D, lingerie) I don't recall consider to be fetish, though some others might.

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lok4fun500 M  
51906 posts
1/21/2022 5:54 pm

No fetishes here!


scoupe42 59M  

1/21/2022 5:55 pm

Fetish? Hmmm, I don't think I have any, I'm kind of a square.


EnigmaInitiative 54F  
6054 posts
1/21/2022 6:01 pm

How do you define a fetish?

I've always defined fetishes as something you can't get sexually aroused without.

Do you have any fetishes?

Under my definition? No.

Under the definition that certain things turn me on more than others? Absofuckinglutely

What are they?

It'd probably be easier to say what I don't enjoy.

(I've brought your complaint to Andrew, but have yet to hear back from him. That said, have you tried using an entirely different browser to see if that takes you to the other side?)

This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.


pal334 67M  
45821 posts
1/22/2022 6:10 am

I like the definition you gave. I am not much of a fetish guy, but so far in life she is in charge

Please cum visit my blog,,,,,,,,,,,,pal334



PonyGirl1965 56F  
22090 posts
1/23/2022 12:17 am

Mmmm some of our kinks overlap


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
1/23/2022 1:27 pm

    Quoting author51:
    Those with a bee fetish have way more than a bee in their bonnet..Good Bloody God. No wonder bees have been disappearing. I guess they do not realize just how important bees are for the earths survival.They only care about getting off. Some sick fetishes in this world and for me that is one of them..GROSS!!!!!!

    I post on both sides myself. Usually here first as it ends up migrating over about 5-10 minutes later in the New Community. I have posted one or two on the dark side first, yet it is indeed quiet over there than compared to here.
    I do have new readers there that I do not have here though and when I go through the members list over there now, there are new ones added every day. I am quite enjoying it on the Dark Side my friend.. xoxo
The bee fetish is a bizarre one, but I don't think there are too many bee fetishists around.
I haven't been able to enter the dark side for over a week now!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
1/24/2022 3:14 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I'll suggest the obvious.
    Log out of A F F
    Close all open links and web pages.
    Clear youR Cache and History.
    Try again, with a clean slate.
    Or follow me, that's where I was about to go.

    Fetish?
    I used to think that if I stroked that tiny Buddha at that corner store nearby - it would bring me good luck. 🍀
    Luck has nothing to do with it, I should have chosen winning numbers.
    Ugh... pick a digit from one to forty-nine. 😶
I just did what you suggested and it worked. Many thanks, I can now enter the dark side!
Someyimes the obvious passes me vy!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
1/24/2022 3:18 am

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I do enjoy my nips being sucked and played with. Fetishooo!
My nipples are too sensitive to be played with.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
1/24/2022 3:20 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    I can do everything there using my laptop except post. I have to use my cellphone 📱 to do that .
    Fetish? I used to pet a Buddha buying my lottery tickets 🎫. He was useless so now I just buy quick picks.
I'd have thought that petting a Buddha would be a sure way of winning the lottery; it seems even Buddha has his limits!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
1/24/2022 3:21 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Happy Fetish Day indeed, you have some arousing fetishes there my friend..

    How do you define a fetish? Nope

    Do you have any fetishes? If so, what are your fetishes? Can't think of anything

    I hope your Friday is treating you well..
My tetishes are preferences rather than terms and conditions for sexual engagement!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
1/24/2022 3:23 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I make a bit of a distinction. If the object or body part is REQUIRED for arousal it's a fetish. Like if a guy can't come unless he's rubbing his penis on your foot, he has a foot fetish.

    If it's more along the lines of a fun enhancement, I would call it a kink.

    If someone has a fetish (or a strong kink) at least you know the foolproof way to turn them on! It's kind of like being in possession of a magic key.
I think that's a good distinction to make about what is a fetish or not. My fetishes are not then fetishes as I don't require them to enjoy sex.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
1/24/2022 3:24 am

    Quoting  :

That's a good distinction between a fetish and a kink. It seems I have kinks not fetishes.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
1/24/2022 3:26 am

    Quoting CleavageFan4U:
    How do you define a fetish? - As we become more open and accepting, the list of fetishes gets shorter and shorter. For me personally, your CBT is not really a fetish, but the bees thing sure is!

    Do you have any fetishes? If so, what are your fetishes? - The stuff I like (big bewbies, a bit of B+D, lingerie) I don't recall consider to be fetish, though some others might.

    Now is the Time to Get All Snuggly
    My Balls, on HNW
    I am Thinking Ahead and You Get the Benefit
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That's the problem with fetishes; it all seems so relative and subjective. But I think the bee fetish would be regarded as a fetish in anyone's book!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
1/24/2022 3:27 am

Surely Santa must have a fetish for sleighs, reindeer and elves!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
1/24/2022 3:28 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    Fetish? Hmmm, I don't think I have any, I'm kind of a square.
It's about hnowing what everyone likes and dislikes, though sex with a square may become a fetish!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
1/24/2022 3:31 am

    Quoting EnigmaInitiative:
    How do you define a fetish?

    I've always defined fetishes as something you can't get sexually aroused without.

    Do you have any fetishes?

    Under my definition? No.

    Under the definition that certain things turn me on more than others? Absofuckinglutely

    What are they?

    It'd probably be easier to say what I don't enjoy.

    (I've brought your complaint to Andrew, but have yet to hear back from him. That said, have you tried using an entirely different browser to see if that takes you to the other side?)
I think your defintion of a fetish s much better than the dictionary definitions. Given your defintion, I have no fetishes.
As already mentioned, I can now enter the new format. I think I may go over more often now as the change is inevitable.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
1/24/2022 3:32 am

    Quoting pal334:
    I like the definition you gave. I am not much of a fetish guy, but so far in life she is in charge
Sometimes I like the woman to be in charge. Being in charge involves too much thinking sometimes.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
1/24/2022 3:32 am

I'm now trying to think what kinks we share!


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