Watching My Wife Have Sex  

nekkedcouple 62M/56F  
34 posts
3/25/2017 4:04 pm
Watching My Wife Have Sex

I love my wife and she loves me. We have literally been together since the first day we met over 23 years ago. We have been involved in several different types of "swinger" events in our marriage and have really enjoyed ourselves.

Recently, I have discovered that I really enjoy watching other nice looking, athletic guys making love to my sweetie. I get very aroused and I guess have a feeling of pride while I watch another man touch, caress and penetrate my wife! Although she does not understand what or why I feel that way, she really loves the touch of some one different every now and then. We don't do it very often, but we both enjoy the experience!

I guess I would love to hear from other couples who invite single guys into their relationships. I would like to know what you like about it and what motivates you to do it!

And, I would like to see what single guys say about the experience and how they feel about being invited into such an intimate event...

goodatpoetry2 72M
16552 posts
3/26/2017 5:04 am

I've joined a few couples who's husbands liked to watch their wives when I was much younger. . I also liked watching, so it was pretty much fun.
I always insisted on two rules.
First, if anyone felt funny and changed their minds, it would end right there. Hopefully we could have a drink and laugh about it afterwards. . Sometimes just getting close can be exciting and fun. . Even for the new guy.
And then, the husband is mostly in charge. . After all, he's the one sharing her with me. . I don't do anything without him telling or hinting that I should go farther. . Especially the first time.
If those rules are understood ahead of time, it'll make everyone more comfortable.

BTW... you've got a lovely wife.

nekkedcouple 62M/56F  
85 posts
3/30/2017 9:28 pm

Thanks for the post! Those are our rules, too. Except she has the final say on everything. Thanks for telling her she is lovely!. This is our first post. Did it post so every one could see it? Although we appreciate your response, we expected more responses...

mtncpl6471 58M/53F  
6 posts
3/30/2017 10:11 pm

so beautiful!

nekkedcouple 62M/56F  
85 posts
3/31/2017 9:23 pm


dlg4u2c 61M
2 posts
4/4/2017 10:11 am

Hello All,
I always enjoyed sex with my wife as she was always very passionate and really became very stimulated when penetrated. She expressed her desire to try a mfm 3 some to me, she said she always wanted to know if she could please two men at once. When we did finally try, i was suprised to find out that it was a turn on for me also. I enjoyed watching the way she moved her hips whether she was on top or bottom and the pleasurable moans she made. I am sure this wouldnt be for everyone, but we enjoyed it.

VerandahPoly 78M  
526 posts
12/28/2017 7:53 am

I was one of the lads involved a couple of times when a lady was pulling a train at a swing club. Her hubby was the MC in the room, letting two guys in. When one was done, another came in. She loved it, and loved having a safe place to do it. It was amazing how congenial the lads in line were with one another. We felt privileged.

partyguy4cpl 51M
2 posts
6/5/2018 8:54 am

i've done plenty of mfm 3somes and enjoyed them very much. i also enjoy the hubby watching me with his wife and watching them also.

4real591000 75F
5 posts
6/10/2018 8:48 pm

I enjoyed when my husband fucked me after the guy(s) shot their cum in me. He loved his cock covered with their cum and sometimes he had me lick it off.

Wantdaddy6 37M
14 posts
9/8/2018 7:50 am

I just love cock in my mouth!

ej2times3 59M
78 posts
10/6/2018 1:34 pm

being a straight male and also having this experience a few times with new friends from this site, i can say it has been a great new sexual experience for me.
the first time together with a new couple is a bit scary until i get to know their likes and dislikes sexually. but after that, and we all become comfortable with one another....a fantastic time for all of us.
the thing i enjoy the most is how much they both enjoy the situation....the husband in all occasions seems to really enjoy me pleasing his wife and the wife really gets into it when her husband finally joins in...
good luck with your wife. i think once she tries it and knows you are o.k. with it, i think it may open a lot of new experiences for both of you.

itltsn 69M  
1 post
10/7/2018 4:25 pm

I have always really enjoyed being with couples. It's so hot to have someone watching and even hotter when hubby joins in for a spit roast! You two are very sexy and I wish you the best.

Thomacock14904 70M
7 posts
10/14/2018 11:55 am

Hello, I just happened to run across your blog. You have a very lovely wife. You were seeing comments from single guys about this situation. I am a single guy who has always enjoyed having sex with a wife while her husband watches. As someone stated earlier I always follow their rules and I am a gentleman. And I do my best to fullfill their wishes on what kind of scene they want.

For me there is just something about being watched that turns me on. I truly love being watched. Feeling the pressure of his eyes excites the hell out of me.I love performing for an appericative hubby. I love to hear his compliments especially about my cock. I also dedicate myself to his viewing pleasure..

I view this as a true triad. Each of us can get what we want. He wants to see his wife get fucked. She wants to get fucked. For me I of course want to fuck her. but I also throughly enjoy being watched and putting on the best show I can for him.

I remember the first time with a couple. He was sitting on a chair. At first She and I stood sideways to him. I got her naked first. Then she got me naked.Once she dropped my pants his eyes were riveted to my cock.It was an odd feeling knowing that my hard cock had a real impact on him. He loved watching her suck me then later fuck me.

Over the years i have met several couples. There are a lot of different situations and tastes. I am there to provide a service. He wants to watch his wife suck and fuck another man. I provide the hard cock to make it possible. I am always aware of his voyeur needs and always follow his instructions to the best of my ability. Needless to say I have enjoyed some long term relationships with some couples over the years. Because they appericate that I aim to please and work with them. It is not just about me it is about all three of us getting what we want.

Coupleinacloset 63M/58F

10/19/2018 6:52 am

For me, it's like you said in your original post "a feeling of pride" that another man is enjoying her so much. I also get aroused when she gets aroused. My wife, like yours, doesn't always understand just why it turns me on so much. But it is part of who I am. I'm just glad she lets me make some of my fantasies reality. She is wonderful that way.
That is a very pretty picture of your wife.

"Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale her infinite variety" Shakespeare

Leegs2012 49M
96134 posts
10/20/2018 10:49 am

Yes, I also love watching my Girlfriend having sex with Men with nice..tone..smooth hairless body's. For me it is a rush!!

KnightOfOld2 70M

1/18/2019 7:51 pm

First time I felt a little wierd being there with another guy watching. Once I got comfortable and started to enjoy his wife things went from tenuous to fantastic. She made me feel comfortable and and we played for about six hours. She came 8 times and she became so sensitized that she couldn't handle to even have a feather caress her clit. All the while her husband watched and took pictures.

We got to where we became friends and had more encounters, sometimes he joined in others it was just her and I. Best playmates I've ever found.

iLuvMyDic 68M
2 posts
1/29/2019 12:58 pm

I too am now a single guy. I've had sex with a few married couples and it was great. Some have actually began as asking me to just video tape them having sex. More often than not, one or both would get so turned on by have someone else in the bedroom watching them fuck, usually the women would ask (sometimes beg) the husband if she could fuck the camera guy while he continued the video. He usually eagerly agreed. I've always considered it an honor to be asked to participate in their love making. And every time, it turns out to be the best sex ever!

dongar4757 69M/59F  
1 post
1/31/2019 3:04 pm

We also enjoy having guys over and I love watching my being pleased, it is very hot and I understand how excited I can get watching her enjoying herself.

nekkedcouple 62M/56F  
85 posts
1/31/2019 3:57 pm

Thank you all for the wonderful comments! Did y'all vote in our poll?

mrklus 68M/61F  
51 posts
9/3/2019 11:20 am

I have been invited into a few different couples sexual adventures. Some have just wanted to watch while others joined in to please her. I find it very exciting that I can be part of their experiences, both being watched and watching. I also enjoy watching my wife have sex with other men. To me it is about being able to watch her really enjoy the sex.

Toby4620 54M

9/22/2019 6:35 pm

Needs to be more like you to are

flipflop469 68M  
33 posts
11/24/2019 5:14 am

First of all, your wife is very lovely and sexual...My wife and I have had several MFM...Almost all of them, I participated...She loved having 2 cocks...ANd I loved watching her...I just couldn't get over her being naked in front of other guys and them seeing her body that way...And the orgasms she had...Incredible...And it didn't hurt that I am bisexual...Just can't describe the feeling of her having sex with someone else...It was just awesome to see and be a part of that situation...Not to mention she LOVED being spit roasted...Flip

gowandahotwife 64M/53F

12/3/2019 1:57 pm

Hey!! We started out as swing partners like most. Then this ONE time she was with a much younger guy and he had a COCK on him!! Such a sweet, handsome, muscular, young man. My wife was screaming with pleasure as this youngster took her like never before. I was FROZEN!! I couldn't even get started with this guys wife!! My wife had to yell over to me..."What the hell are you doing?? Fuck her!!"
That single encounter brought us to where we are today. I don't even enter the room normally unless my wife calls for me. We have found that most of the men we have played with prefer to be alone with my wife. They are all together a different animal if I'm watching.
Only have one regret...wish we had started this awesome lifestyle sooner!

VerandahPoly 78M  
526 posts
12/30/2019 5:47 am

Peter Freuchen’s BOOK OF THE ESKIMOS ... They think you have a pretty low opinion of your wife if you don’t want to share her body.

Knowhowitgoes 64M/64F  
19 posts
7/13/2020 12:52 pm

I agree totally with goandahotwife...when we started to occasionally bring single guys home it was fun for both of us, but as she grew more confident and comfortable and liked to take charge, she and her men were more comfortable as a 2some, and I've had zero problem with that. Sharing details with me later is optional...I just need to know that she was happy and felt safe and well 'taken care of'.

beadsandbikes1 62M/F  
65 posts
1/7/2021 6:22 am

You know it's a funny thing of what turns us all on and that we just don't know why. We are all wired by so many things. Visual, scent, touch, taste, sound ect but, watching your wife being pleasured is just not necessary to explain why as it's just good enough that it is and we are so blessed to share without drama...!

Great post.

4tenn 75M
44 posts
3/23/2021 12:15 pm

Interesting ?

chmplkr 57M
11 posts
4/25/2021 5:59 pm

Teresa is such a hottie ur a lucky guy!

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