Question for ladies about being in public  

me_lonely37 53M
24 posts
6/11/2021 9:55 am
Question for ladies about being in public


There is a nice looking lady I see where I ride my bike, I recognize her from this site, she has a tat.
She is always alone and walking when I see her, like me she is married.
Is it okay for me to stop and chat with her, do I let her know I recognize her from the site?

me_lonely37 53M
118 posts
6/11/2021 9:55 am

what to do?


lust4life59 63F  
2552 posts
6/11/2021 10:43 am

I was confronted a couple of weeks ago, recognized at the grocery store. It wasn't an unpleasant experience, in fact the young gentleman was quite nice, and we chatted for a few minutes. I did rush home though and immediately hid all my face pictures, realized if he recognized me, no telling how many others have and it might have not been as pleasant had they appoached me. It's actually kind of disconcerting to realize there are several local people I am am likely to run across every day, and that while they could recognize me, due to their lack of facial pictures, I would never recognize them.

The usual protocol, as least from what I understand is to never approach someone except through the site. Is there any way you can contact her through here? Points for IM perhaps? Does she have a blog?


Tmptrzz 59F  
107038 posts
6/11/2021 11:01 am

You know that's a tough one there, strike up a conversation but let her mention the site before you say you know she is a member here.

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Starsearch1965 56M
2264 posts
6/11/2021 11:40 am

I had a member recognize we talked all went good now we talk regularly


lookin4funMOIL 60M/60F  
472 posts
6/11/2021 11:55 am

if they see us on here there doing the same thing we are doing on here so we dont care if they see us or not


countryqueen1 72F

6/11/2021 12:08 pm

I agree with Lust4life. Do not approach her in public. I can't even imagine how awkward and disconcerting it would be to be approached out of the blue in public by someone from this site. If you want to send her a message and explain the situation at least you give her the opportunity of refusing without personal contact


Luv2bottom4u2 65M  
1875 posts
6/11/2021 2:00 pm

I say be polite and yes let them know. Never know where it could lead too ! I did it once to someone I knew that came onto this site. It worked out shortly later to { What you doing this weekend } ? It ended up I was doing them !


ltrskr 74M  
5151 posts
6/11/2021 2:11 pm

Just stop and ask her directions to the Holiday Inn.......LOL!


author51 59F  
130010 posts
6/11/2021 10:01 pm

    Quoting countryqueen1:
    I agree with Lust4life. Do not approach her in public. I can't even imagine how awkward and disconcerting it would be to be approached out of the blue in public by someone from this site. If you want to send her a message and explain the situation at least you give her the opportunity of refusing without personal contact
I agree with Country Queen here on this one.. Let her know through messaging her first before talking to her in public about it...


rickfire22 65M  
31 posts
6/11/2021 10:23 pm

I think I would let them know so it isn't a suprise later. Besides, like someone said, it might work out.


agelesssexylegs 79F
1145 posts
6/12/2021 12:07 am

Well talk to her but do not mention you saw her on this site,unless she brings it up


melrosecpl 63M/61F
522 posts
6/12/2021 12:47 am

We've seen people from BlackSexMatch.com from our area. We didn't make contact and they didn't seem like they recognized us.


HGMDale 70M  
82 posts
12/15/2021 7:23 am

Give it a shot. Might work out for both of you to have some exciting times.


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