From a bi guy's point of view
 
How I view my sexual life
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Come on people.....Really, Who doesn't enjoy cock?
Posted:May 13, 2022 9:20 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2022 9:38 am
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In some way, I can't imagine most people don't enjoy cock. I mean if you're a guy, you enjoy your own cock, right? Maybe you have even enjoyed watching another guy's cock, like in a porn vid, maybe sliding in and out of a hot wet pussy? Yeah I think we all, or at least many of us have enjoyed that. Perhaps some of us have enjoyed a personal fantasy involving cock ? Your own cock is fun , right? So not such a giant leap to think of someone else's cock in a fun way ? I'm not saying we all have or would enjoy another's cock in a real way, just saying it's likely, very likely we all have at least had a fleeting thought of that.
I personally have thought of sexual activity / one of life's great pleasures as something that is a basic human thing, can be shared with anyone, by anyone I mean male or female, Not a random anyone, there has to be some feeling of connection or "chemistry" for me personally. Not to mention all the preliminary requirements , you know, visual attraction, personal hygiene, etc.. We all see things from our "own" perspective. That said,,, I'm thinking we're all not so different. we're all human. Most of our perceived differences are ... for lack of a better definition, installed in us, just my observation. You know what I mean,? we're all kind of pre programmed from many sources, as to what to believe, what to see others as, how to think as a result of, then there's the "need" to fit in somewhere, in order to not stand out, we adopt the ideas / beliefs or whatever, of the rest of the group, and oppose the "opposing " groups, after a while of that, maybe we start to really "become" that. ?? Forget who we are as an individual? Forget we are at our best when we continually seek and process all available information and then form our own personal views and beliefs. Rather than get lazy and comfortable existing in the boxes constructed to contain and limit us and separate us as human beings from each other, easy to manage by the builders of the boxes..... Hmmmmm. So yeah, I use the subject " cock" (this is a sexually based site after all ), But really it represents any possible things we might see as "different" about each other. Damn...... seems we walk right into the boxes, just the way it is planned. All the while we are fighting each other "you stay out of our box! , or convince each other one box is better than the other.... The powerful are building more boxes. Boxes inside other boxes. Boxes to contain other boxes. Boxes for whatever opportunity they identify on a daily, sometimes hourly basis ! while we're fighting each other to get in those boxes, we're too enraged at the boxes full of the "different than us" to see that we are behaving just as they intend us to behave. Ignoring the fact that all the differences are by design keeping us impotent and empowering the few that control every aspect of our existence.
Free thinking, informed and united people are the answer. Boxes suck ! and not in a good way.....
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My First Time Bottoming
Posted:Sep 19, 2016 6:34 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2021 8:41 am
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The first time I received anal was likely the most awesome sexual experience for me. It actually happened more or less by accident, it was with the guy at the YMCA I wrote about that some time back, magazine post here, anyway , he and I were buddies. After our first time , in the shower, we would get together quite often. Obviously we were just 2 super horny guys, lol, who wasn't? We had a lot of fun fooling around,, pretty much just oral, I loved sucking his cock, and he was fine with that.... we were both virgins, as far as girls anyway, Along with that, we didn't have much reference material to learn from, porn was not easy to get then,,, we really didn't know much, we would just get in bed and let it happen, like I said, I loved his cock, he was pretty big, seems like at least 8 inches and thick, cut, really nice! I'm getting hot just remembering this.... he also would cum a lot, way more than me, 7.8.9 squirts !! always a wet mess, lol . we started to figure out what we each liked, the more we played, the better it got. he liked to slide his cock , between my cheeks, while I was laying on my stomach, up and down, on and on, I was happy just knowing it felt good for him, he would get off like that sometimes and cum all over my ass, some he would keep going, my ass all slippery, we didn't know anything about lube etc,. Neither of us had any experience with any of this, I had thought about what it would be like to let him fuck me, but we were both to scared of the unknown, I guess, so we never did attempt it. then one day he was doing his thing and came all over me, it was so wet and hot, I just loved it when he would get off like that, he didn't stop rubbing against me and my ass being all wet, his cock found my hole and bam! he jammed it in me, not meaning too, and we both jumped, me from the pain, and him from the surprise. He pulled right out, it wasn't really in me very far,,, he was kind of freaked out, he thought he'd really hurt me, it did hurt, but I told him , don't worry about it. After a minute or so, I was thinking , man that was kind of awesome, I was still covered in his cum back there and started to grind my ass against him, he slid his cock between my cheeks and was doing the usual, I was moving so I could feel his cock more against my hole, and he picked right up on my cue and started teasing my hole some, we didn't speak a word for a few minutes, I think we both were just a little scared and intrigued, I know I wanted it, it just felt like I should have his cock inside me, I knew it hurt before, but I was sure I wanted it more than that. He finally asked me if I wanted him to push harder, and I told him sure. of course he pushed too hard, lol, he was raging hard, it hurt again, I jumped a little he backed out and before he could say any thing, I backed against his cock and told him to just go slow. I'll be honest, I was in a haze, my head was spinning, I was so hot, I just knew this was exactly right. it took quite a while to get him a little bit inside me, his cock was big, like I said, but he finally was mostly inside me, it felt awesome, we just lay there, motionless for a while, we were both smoking hot, I could feel him throbbing inside me. after a while I started to squeeze and sqirm a little, he started to moan and grind into me some. it was like nothing I had ever expected, I reached down do grab my cock and realized I was oozing pre cum like crazy, that really turned me on and him too, he was fucking me short and slow strokes a little and I was just beside my self, when he started to cum. I cant put into words what I was feeling right then, he was cumming inside me and I was loving it, and almost instinctively milking his cock for every drop, and I was cumming more than I had ever cum. we were both just shaking. As awkward and painful as some of this was, it was so awesome for us both. I'm dripping here typing this out... We both knew we had something here. we both were constantly chasing girls, and never getting any, seemed the way it was back then, but we had this outlet in each other. he was my first, and I was his first, we never kissed, or any of that, we weren't romantically involved, but we knew what we had was not the norm for most guys. but it was great. He was not into being bottom, we tried, but it just wasn't for him, which was fine for me! We would get together sometimes 3,4,5 times a week, ahhh, youth, lol . I couldn't get enough of his cum, and he was happy to give it....\8
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Being a " Bi " guy is not easy, but it is rewarding.
Posted:Oct 12, 2015 6:26 am
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2019 5:53 am
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I wrote this a while back, as a mag article.

From my observations, it seems far harder to be a bi man than
it is to be a bi woman.

Actually not for me, I am completely comfortable with who
I am, and with the exception of a few, I really don't
care what people in general might think of me.

Anyway, back on point.

To some straight men, women, and even some bi women, bi men
like gay men have violated the culture’s accepted notions
of “masculinity”.

Real men should be powerful, strong, in control and rugged.
A "real man" would never perform any sexual
act with another man. They never, ever would perform a sexual
act with another man that a women might perform on a man.

I think if a man performs any sex act with another man in some
ways, he will never be the same.To an open minded, thinking
man, the experience can teach things many others may never
have access to.

Even if he never does it again, his sense of awareness and
level of experience will be expanded beyond the realm of
any "straight" man, if he is confident in himself
, and is willing to embrace it.

The bisexual man is a misnomer, a mystery. The existence
of bisexual men illicit cognitive dissonance. They do
with men what women do with men and what (the seemingly more
accepted) gay men do with men, but they also do with women
what men do with women. Hmmm, what's up with that??

Our modern culture , almost openly supports bi women. They
are trendy and sexy, because they are sexually empowered
and fearless. They violate the “old rules” of gender
specifics and embrace gender flexibility, balance and
orgasm.

It has been my experience bi men never get that kind of support
unless it comes from the bi community. There doesn't
seem to be room for men in society, who can, and choose to
balance their masculinity and femininity. I guess that
is fairly easy to get...The duality of passive and assertive
women is difficult enough for people to comprehend.

The idea of men being, or choosing to be sexually submissive
and/or aggressive defies the "traditional"
definition of “manhood” and routine logic,

I'm thinking some "straight" men either
fear or do not understand bi men.Although I believe it is
not too far of a leap to go from enjoying ones own male sexuality
, to enjoying it with another male, admit it guys, most of
us have at least thought about it.

Maybe straight and some bi women, who have invested a great
deal of their status in the power of their sexuality may
feel they cannot compete with bi men as partners.I don't
believe this is common, just putting it out there.

While in a relationship with a man it seems women feel they
must be his sole object of sexuality to feel comfortable
in the relationship, even if they are playing with other
women. I have personal knowledge of this, and I assume it's
often the case.

I also know some bi women feel that if they can be bi, why can’t
their man. What is good for the gander is also good for the
goose. And I also have personal knowledge of bi and straight
women, who feel that sexual activity among men is hot and
sexy and a major turn on. In fact, many women prefer gay and or bi pornography over
straight porn, claiming it is more realistic.... go figure.

I know information is power...

By experiencing sexual contact with more than one gender, I
believe bi men accumulate more information than any mono-sexual.,
is that a word? I know I am a better lover, and I believe a better
person for it.

By playing with other bi couples bi men learn what only other
women know, that is, how to please a male partner as a woman,
how to satisfy another penis, or do unto another penis what
you love done to your own.

Bi male sex is liberating. Bi men escape the confines other
men subject themselves to, and then can lead others, both
men and women into another place of their own creation.
More than straight sex, bi male sex is more about sharing,
passion and being open that exposes men to the feelings
most often available only to women.

Bi male sex tames down alpha male competitions and jealousies.
Men, who engage in bisexual activity tend to be more supportive
of each other and less jealous about the penis that enters
his lover’s vagina, especially when they have just been
sucking it.

Bisexual men love their female partners, because they
share commonalities with them, not because they are hostage
to their women’s sexuality. As a result, bi men are more
self-confident about their masculinity, which can be
a very powerful aphrodisiac for women and men.

Once they accept themselves, reinforced by their successful
experiences, the strength of their own convictions trumps
whatever norm society dictates making them even more powerful
than most heterosexual men.

Bi male sex gives liberation and celebration to un repressed
sexuality - to both males and females - at its most beautiful
and powerful.

At its best with balance and responsibility bi male sex
yields freedom and even wisdom.

Just My Opinion
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THE VALUE OF MY BISEXUAL EXPERIENCE
Posted:Jun 5, 2015 7:20 am
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2020 5:22 am
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I'm not sure if I hadn't had the experience as I I would have ever tried it. But I'm thankful, and feel fortunate that I had that, it really opened my eyes to the fact that we are all sexual, plain and simple, all the stigma, labels etc., are nothing more than politics, religious, etc. bias. I'm not including perversion, and the down right abhorrent behavior that some people are capable of. I was born in the 50's and lived in a small town, catholic, yada, yada, and I can honestly say I never believed I or anyone else, would burn, or was some kind of freak, etc. for enjoying physical pleasure, I mean in nature there is pain and there is pleasure, if it's so wrong for two consenting adults, or for that matter one person lol, to enjoy sexual pleasure, why would it feel so good. I'm not trying to justify anything with that simple logic, just saying it really puts a light on the fact that the judgment society, religion etc. places on a free human beings personal behavior has little to do with the real world we each individually exist in. I know my experiences have made me a better person, a better man, and for sure a better lover, ( ask my wife ) Also I know from my own existence, that people are complex, very individual, of course we all may have similarities, but any label we adopt, or is placed on us cannot possibly define who we really are. My wife and I have been together for 35 yrs. worked through the rough spots, and here we are. She knows about me, we have no big secretes about any of that. I feel so fortunate to have the honesty we have. as time has gone by her desire for sex is not what it once was, not unusual for some women, she allows me to be me, she trusts me, and she is not threatened by it, she knows I'm not going to run off with anyone else.... No chasing chicks tho, lol, which is fine with me, too much trouble, drama etc.
I have only ever been with 3 guys, in all this time. I'm just not the guy that's going to just hook up , not going to happen, I mean to each their own and all, but guys that do that with men or women are just nuts in my opinion, If I never find another guy I trust to get with, I'm ok with that, I have my own cock to play with, of course it's not the same, but I like my cock, and I really know this guy, he's totally safe in every way LOL, I really hope I can find "the guy" tho.
If my wife was not cool with this, I can honestly say I'm not sure how id be with that. I'm sure there would be some stress with it. Seems the older I get the more I realize what a gift life is, and how fleeting it is.
The pleasure I've known both with my wife and the 3 guys ive been with, is for me is very different and similar, of course the sex with my wife also carries the emotion, the deep , long connection, all we share in life, and the man woman thing, It's not easy to put in words to explain the sex with guys , I cant say there is no emotion exactly, also hard to explain, but with the right guy ( and that's all its ever been for me) the sex and being in that is very different, I guess because I know what it is to be a guy, so being with a guy sexually is, well, it gives me a perspective a lot of guys will never know.
Again, I don't know that I can explain it, I just know it. when I'm with a guy and get him off and get off with him its very intense to say the least. I haven't been there in quite a while, but its not something you forget.
I'm not the guy you would see some place and say to your self,,, there's a bi guy;;;; lol, like I said people are complex. I am bottom with a guy, I have actually had orgasms without touching my cock while being fucked, im sure sex is at least 90% in our heads, but wow, its good when your in that place, I've also had these long orgasms I don't know that its like the multiple orgasms women have but, I have had them, soo intense, and again, words cant explain them, I wouldn't want them a lot, too draining, exhausting, but almost like a little glimpse of heaven when it happens , sounds weird, I know, but I'll take it...... the way it is for me, I just want to enjoy what I can , while I can, hope to find "that guy" again, but that's not all there is to my enjoyment of life, I have a good bit of fun just being me, it's also nice to chat with other guys about it, remember the fun, memories, etc. everyone has to make choices. lots of choices...I choose to enjoy all I can, in my own way. . in a perfect world all this would be a lot easier, that's not happening tho is it.
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Being Bisexual
Posted:Feb 12, 2012 10:14 am
Last Updated:Jun 1, 2020 7:19 am
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From my observations, it seems far harder to be a bi man than it is to be a bi woman.

Actually not for me, I am completely comfortable with who I am,and with the exception of a few, I really don't care what people in general might think of me.

Anyway, back on point.

To some straight men, women, and even some bi women, bi men like gay men have violated the culture’s accepted notions of “masculinity”.

Real men should be powerful,strong, in control and rugged. A "real man" would never perform any sexual act with another man. They never, ever would perform a sexual act with another man that a women might perform on a man.

I think if a man performs any sex act with another man in some ways, he will never be the same.To an open minded, thinking man, the experience can teach things many others may never have access to.

Even if he never does it again, his sense of awareness and level of experience will be expanded beyond the realm of any "straight" man, if he is confident in himself , and is willing to embrace it.

The bisexual man is a misnomer, a mystery. The existence of bisexual men illicit cognitive dissonance. They do with men what women do with men and what (the seemingly more accepted) gay men do with men, but they also do with women what men do with women.
Hmmm, what's up with that??

Our modern culture , almost openly supports bi women. They are trendy and sexy, because they are sexually empowered and fearless. They violate the “old rules” of gender specifics and embrace gender flexibility, balance and orgasm.

It has been my experience bi men never get that kind of support unless it comes from the bi community. There doesn't seem to be room for men in society, who can, and choose to balance their masculinity and femininity. I guess that is fairly easy to get...The duality of passive and assertive women is difficult enough for people to comprehend.

The idea of men being, or choosing to be sexually submissive and/or aggressive defies the "traditional" definition of “manhood” and routine logic,

I'm thinking some "straight" men either fear or do not understand bi men.Although I believe it is not too far of a leap to go from enjoying ones own male sexuality , to enjoying it with another male, admit it guys, most of us have at least thought about it.

Maybe straight and some bi women, who have invested a great deal of their status in the power of their sexuality may feel they cannot compete with bi men as partners.I don't believe this is common, just putting it out there.

While in a relationship with a man it seems women feel they must be his sole object of sexuality to feel comfortable in the relationship, even if they are playing with other women. I have personal knowledge of this, and I assume it's often the case.

I also know some bi women feel that if they can be bi, why can’t their man. What is good for the gander is also good for the goose. And I also have personal knowledge of bi and straight women, who feel that sexual activity among men is hot and sexy and a major turn on.
In fact, many women prefer gay and or bi pornography over straight porn, claiming it is more realistic.... go figure.

I know information is power...

By experiencing sexual contact with more than one gender,I believe bi men accumulate more information than any mono-sexual., is that a word? I know I am a better lover, and I believe a better person for it.

By playing with other bi couples bi men learn what only other women know, that is, how to please a male partner as a woman, how to satisfy another penis, or do unto another penis what you love done to your own.

Bi male sex is liberating. Bi men escape the confines other men subject themselves to, and then can lead others, both men and women into another place of their own creation. More than straight sex, bi male sex is more about sharing, passion and being open that exposes men to the feelings most often available only to women.

Bi male sex tames down alpha male competitions and jealousies. Men, who engage in bisexual activity tend to be more supportive of each other and less jealous about the penis that enters his lover’s vagina, especially when they have just been sucking it.

Bisexual men love their female partners, because they share commonalities with them, not because they are hostage to their women’s sexuality. As a result, bi men are more self-confident about their masculinity, which can be a very powerful aphrodisiac for women and men.

Once they accept themselves, reinforced by their successful experiences, the strength of their own convictions trumps whatever norm society dictates making them even more powerful than most heterosexual men.

Bi male sex gives liberation and celebration to un repressed sexuality - to both males and females - at its most beautiful and powerful.

At its best with balance and responsibility bi male sex yields freedom and even wisdom.

Just My Opinion
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Male Multiple Orgasm ?
Posted:Dec 23, 2011 5:16 am
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2015 7:23 am
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I do NOT get with just any guy, in fact, I've been "bi"
since I discovered sex, and have had male sexual connections with only 3 guys.
All could be considered somewhat long term, occasional.
I guess my criteria for choosing a compatible fuck buddy
is the reason for that.

I have always thought of myself as a bottom when with
another man. I believe there is a large psychological aspect to sex.

I’m not effeminate in any way but, whenever I’m with
a male partner doing sex It's almost complete surrender, much of
my focus is on his sexual pleasure and on being certain that
he or she experiences maximum pleasure(this is the same for me
when I'm with a woman, I enjoy being an un-selfish lover).
I suppose I seem somewhat feminine to him, and I like it. I
don’t mean dressing or acting like a woman, but the feeling
of being physically connected, in that way, I mean how
much more connected can one human being be to another than
by having him inside. I'm not a overly philosophical guy, but it’s almost a spiritual connection.
I discovered the pleasure of receiving anal sex kind of
early on, quite by almost accident. Thats a whole other
story. That lead me on the thought path to believing sex is sex,
with the same sex or the opposite, I mean why would it feel
so good in so many ways, if it is wrong? Just my opinion of
course.

That said, when I do get with a guy, it's because I really
want to be there, all the way, this refers to the psych thing.
I don't expect anyone to understand this next part, I
have experienced what I think is an internal orgasm.
Not the usual male orgasm, way different. I initially thought I was somehow making
this happen in my head, but a bit of research and I find there
is something to this. Hm-mm, makes sense, why not? I'm
not talking just the prostate thing, I'm sure that's part of
it, but there's more. Even if I don’t cum in the traditional
way, I feel more than satisfied. I do have these “internal orgasms” and they are extremely powerful.

They come one after another during sex in waves,
my nipples are highly sensitive, and so hard it almost hurts, lots
of nerve endings firing off. No usual orgasm during this, no
cumming, and it can last for as long as he is making all the
right moves, the best way I can describe it is un-realistically
intense pleasure…like going to heaven for a fraction
of second and back. If this is all in my head, yeah for me!

If my partner is attentive to my penis, at the right
moment, it can add a whole other layer to the internal thing.
when I cum it is mind blowing, earth shattering. I would
not be able to stand up, I’m shaking short of breath, every
nerve is tingling. Words can’t explain it.
(I have experienced similar extreme orgasms with my wife,
but it seems to start in a different place.)

The usual hand job etc. is just like a whimper compared to
big big bang.

I really don't expect many to understand any of this,
pretty sure I'm not too far off from being a normal human
being. Also I'm pretty sure we people probably don't
know / understand as much as we'd like to think we do.

I can say. I am completely fine with who I am and trying to have
a whole lotta fun being me.
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Labels, Needed ????
Posted:Dec 5, 2011 6:29 am
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2015 8:46 am
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I can only guess why for others> For me,, as far as sites, such as this one, it seems a label is required, even tho 90% of the people here seem to just not see or want to see what we put in our profiles. I am sexual.... what does that mean? In my case, I am secure/ comfortable in my own skin. I enjoy sex, that's the way it's supposed to be, makes sense to me, I mean we're not writhing in pain during, after, or even when we're thinking about it.( if you are , you might need a doctor, maybe a psychologist.)
I never had any misconceptions about sexual pleasure. I love women, always have. Have a great,long marriage,great sexual connection with my wife. I realized early on, I really enjoyed my cock, cock is good....(grunt). I am sexually interested in cock.
beyond that, I am not, in my every day boring aspects of life, checking out guys, I am checking out women.....Hm-mm, nothing strange here, I love getting my partner off, love the fact that I am giving that pleasure, love the feeling of the sexual connection. For me it's totally natural to be sexually with another guy, as with all the other aspects of my life and how I live it. I really couldn't care less what anyone thinks of me. Well maybe a couple of people, but I know they know me and what I do in bed is not even a brief thought for them.
So what fits??? within the confines of this arena..
I am Bi. also bottom (with a guy) (guys, if you havn't been there, I can't explain.)
More notable, I am genuine, just being me, have had a bit of time to refine that. Totally fine with who I am.
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Fantasy ?
Posted:Nov 9, 2011 5:11 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2014 6:33 am
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Finally, we are going to get together.... I go to his apt. He meets me at the door in a towel, says he just got out of the spa, invites me in, heads to the laundry room to put the wet towel in the dryer, I watch as he drops the towel, mmmm his cock is semi hard, very nice. He comes back in to the living room, I start to undress and he invites me to the bedroom. Both totally nude we hit the bed, he is on his back, me telling him to just relax as I grab his growing cock, his pre cum is starting to drip, I smooth it around the head of his cock with my thumb, as I stroke him, as I move between his legs, he tells me he has been thinking about this since we first talked, nice to hear.. At this point I cant wait any longer and and start to lick at his cock with teasing flicks of my tongue, tasting his pre cum really gets me going and I take him into my mouth , slowly rolling my tongue around the head of his cock as I bob up and down on it. Looking up at him his eyes are closed and he's starting to moves his hips in rhythm to me, this really makes me hot, love to know it's good for him... I suck his cock for a while deep throating him, till I can tell he's getting close. I stop and ask him if he has been thinking about fucking me, he says oh yes, wow, really hot now !!! I grab some lube , some on his cock and a dab for me and I throw my leg over him facing him straddling him, grabbing his cock behind me I guide him as I move my waiting ass to take him inside, first just the head of his cock, I feel him throbbing, then a bit more, he's soooo thick!! taking my time, a bit more now, feeling him penetrate me as I watch him his eyes rolling back in his head as he feels me around his cock, all the way in now, just sitting there, feeling the fullness, if you've never known this, I can't explain it.... I start to slowly ride up and down a bit, he moans.... ride him a bit more, I can tell he is in the zone now, so I slide all the way down on him, and start to roll my hips, grinding him into me, he reaches for my cock , my throbbing , raging cock, and I know he is almost there. This sends me over the top as I want nothing more than for him to cum like he has never cum before, he starts to shudder and I'm squeezing his cock, arching by back, riding him as hard as I can as he tells me he's cumming, and I explode into my own orgasm, instinctively trying to get more of him inside me. shooting my seed all over us both. After what seems like minutes, likely a few seconds, smiling at each other , I roll off of him, jokingly asking if it was good for him
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Say what you mean,,,Mean what you say !
Posted:Feb 15, 2011 10:13 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2014 6:33 am
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Be honest, to your self, and to others. Why would you go to all the effort to comunicate to some one here,and then try to tell them what you think they want to hear, or more likely, to hear your self say what you need to further your fantasy. I would much rather know it's all just about getting your self off, with no intention of anything more, than to be thinking maybe there could be a connection, a possible common desire. It seems alot of guys are just not ready to really be with another guy, and thats fine, but as most here know, it's alot of time and work to find the "right" person to get with, at least it is for me, I'm just not the guy that jumps in bed with any one that wants to, but thats just my thing. Don't get me wrong, I am not opposed to talking about hot nasty stuff and getting off, there are lots of ways to have fun, and that is surely one. And I'm not talking here about any specific interaction here, just seems alot of people really have little respect for other peoples time etc..
JUST SAY WHAT YOU MEAN,,,,MEAN WHAT YOU SAY it's easier than it sounds..Try it. AHHH it's good to rant!
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I am bisexual, Feels right for me
Posted:Dec 30, 2010 5:29 am
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2022 9:58 am
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> I think sex is at least 75% in our heads, wanting to feel desired in any way is just a human need, I have always been a very un selfish lover, with women and or men, although I think the self satisfaction for me comes from giving my lover a great expierience. I'm not really submissive, submission and surrender are two different things, and there is power in both. I am very cautious and selective when it comes to sex with a guy, the trust thing... some guys will tell you whatever, to get some. I keep this kind of relationship totally honest, of course you cant help feeling some kind of emotion with intimacy, It takes alot of disipline and self control to kind of keep it all in perspective for me. It's tough to find a guy that wants what I want. no drama, just honest sensual sharing with each other, Of course if I did'nt care about him , at least in the way he enjoys me, I could'nt give ,(surrender) . Just me lol. I'm sure it's different for every one. Me, just two people, enjoying sex, pure and simple. Get my lovin at home>>>
> I'm not the guy you would meet and think to your self " he's into sex with guys" not that I care what most people think, I'm totally secure with how I enjoy sex. LOVE being a bottom, Love thinking he is enjoying being inside me as much as I enjoy him being inside me. I guess knowing what it's like as a top, makes me a better bottom. Would be very happy to find a guy that fits my fantasy , (not likely lol) .
> So its a process, meet a guy, talk, try to get a read on him, hope he is being honest,etc. takes time to really know someone. As far as anal, condoms for me, if I get to the point where I'm going to go for it, I have a pretty good idea who I'm with, but I'm not takin any more chances than I have to. Still, at some point you have to trust what he is saying,or not, about who and or how many people he is playing with.I love giving head, but as I said if I dont trust the guy enough, he is not going to be in bed with me any way. That said, I have never sucked cock through a rubber, have never had a STD, but I've only been with 4 guys ever, really miss the long term arraingments.
> As far as how it makes me feel , when I'm getting fucked it just feels right, mentally its as natural as anything,sexually its very satisfying, physically it's an awesome feeling a very profound connection to feel him throbbing inside me, I'm pretty sure all that is due to the fact that I really want him in that way, I mean if a bunch of guys held me down and forced me, not gonna be liking that much, know what I mean?
> Always makes me hard,bottoming for my guy, most always stay hard,many times I have cummed just from being fucked some times at the same moment he came, and some times even without being hard.
I think any man that has not felt a cock inside him is missing somthing that just cant be described, weather they know it, or not. just my opinion.
> for me licking pussy, or sucking cock,or whatever, it's no different if you really want to be there.
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