You Arent the only one  

Petitesela 31F  
142 posts
7/6/2019 1:33 am
You Arent the only one


I admit it, I love the attention, the more the better .. even the wrong kind. Even bad press is good press? I just get tired of trying to explain .. you are not my only message. I love you taking the time or having the balls to reach out to me .. but sometimes I cant answer you right away. My life is busy af with life in and out of these websites. I do meet up with several people and it gets overwhelming. I have been away from home for days at a time. Sometimes I go on adventures that physically beat me down .. and I mean that literally sometimes. I know I should take a couple days or a week break but I dont. Therapists tell me to stop but I dont or maybe I cant. But no matter what I do, how many times I do it, or with how many there is always more and more wanted. I love it and hate it. I cant keep up.

Sometimes I dont answer because I am with others, sometimes I am out of service. Sometimes there are just to many messages to keep up with. Or sometimes I cant answer all the "Hey babe, wanna fuck?" messages. Although I like them and probably would I tend to answer the message that get me hot.

Sorry about the bitchfest. -Sela
Petitesela

SavageStamina777 56M  
2 posts
10/13/2020 9:42 am

Everything is subjective, babe. But in my world yours is the absolute most perfect frame I've seen on this site. I want to just kiss all over it, get you nice and moist, and then devour and conquer. Rough and hard until you come several times. I will save it. Have stamina for days.


royaloakian 63M  
167 posts
3/5/2020 6:51 pm

my spin..you are sexy as the day is long..and any moments..i should get to spend with you? Words ail me here...but hey are memorable...


yourguy153 49M  
4 posts
12/9/2019 12:06 pm

You are perfect the way you are


Ej_stan2 23M
1 post
10/27/2019 11:26 pm

You're fine however you feel comfortable in.


Trapper69 65G  
2657 posts
10/10/2019 11:47 am

Never feel that you owe anyone anything here..... Life is short, enjoy it as often as you can, but when you're in need of a rest, get the rest you need. If you're unable to give it your all, you're cheating yourself as well as the other person. Sex is a wonderful gift. However, when you run yourself ragged, it's not nearly as good. Sometimes, as badly as you want to do it, it's best to say "NO!" If you're really interested, simply explain the reason, and reschedule....If the guy is a decent man, he'll understand, and.it'll work out. If he's a jerk, and insists on you meeting him, be thankful you found out before hand......then tell him to get lost!


londonbridge1992 41M
356 posts
9/19/2019 1:55 pm

Hi, Sela.
How are you?
I live in South Florida too.
I'll give you all the attention you desire.
Hit me up.
Thanks.


Texman1975 46M

8/9/2019 11:10 pm

Well Sela, I would like to write you a nice long or hot letter to get you horny, but I don't know if you would reply? That is why I don't take the time to write letters here. I don't want to write something I put a lot of thought into then not hear a reply from that person I'm writing. If you truly like to read a good letter I would like to write to you?

Lawrence


s2ndegree 63M  
9800 posts
7/6/2019 3:15 pm

Well one thing is for sure.You came to the right place to be anything your heart desires.Feeling a tad blue.Stop in read a few messages,shore up your confidence. and pick up where you left off!It seems to be the general idea
Vanilla is more a condition of meaningful encounters with those that are more substantial and considerate of someone's time and effort.

Using more than all the road!


pytimesx 62M
988 posts
7/6/2019 11:41 am

This a meat-house treated as a meat-house by most men - hence the comment "Hey babe, wanna fuck?".

The trick is not making excuses for those that hven't the patience to meet you. Imagine they'll 'fuck' you in the same way without the patience a woman deserves. If nothing else remember one thing... as much as you're likely to see a guy and want to jump his bones and find excitement in pleasuring him, sex is always about the woman (or should be). The why's and how's are too much to discuss here (perhaps on IM) but what you should be looking for is the man that inherently understands the fundamentals of why sex is always (well 85 about the woman.


justaguyinalaska 56M
879 posts
7/6/2019 10:45 am

Apologies are not necessary.

It's sad that you feel obliged to remind your anxious *suitors* of that which must be painfully obvious to the rest of us: our community has provided so many channels of communication that it feels like the braids of the Mississippi Delta. Given the overwhelming dominance of Y-chromosomes in our BlackSexMatch.com population, it should go without saying even a PR team working around the clock could not get you "even" with the torrent of messages you likely receive on an hourly basis.

I have no doubt you are nurturing the connections that resonate for you. Your blogs and profile updates are not only sufficient, but more than these discontents deserve.


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